Writing individual notes vs one?

[Cosmiq]

I feel like I want to acknowledge those that really mean a lot to me and have attempted to help make my life more enjoyable. But then I feel like I don't have much to say to a few people. It's not out of negativity or anything. So then I feel like, not leaving them a note feels like a message that I don't want to send. Though there are a few people I do want to hurt, and feel like the absence of one is better than wasting my time writing one when I don't exactly blame them for everything.

Like I want to write one to my mom and younger sister, but I'd struggle finding any meaningful words for my brother or dad even though neither have made my life awful, while I'd want to hurt my stepdad and older sister.

 

[Despondent]

I plan to write a general note explaining my reasoning (etc) and then write out more personalized short notes to those I love. It's going to take some time and I've never come around to doing it just yet.

 

[Isittimetogonola]

I have individual notes to those that now or once upon a time I considered family. I have also left short videos for 2 of my closest in a cloud that only they will have access. In each note, I ask that they share amongst themselves that will hopefully bring closure but that must be on them. Only the note to my wife is incomplete. I know once that is done, my time will be up. I do not plan on a single note, most of those that would read it would do so out of morbid curiosity. They have no place in what life I have left and sure as hell don't deserve it.