Would you want a funeral?

[Avril]

I want a simple cremation and my ashes spread out to sea. I'll probably bar my ex from seeing me, but I don't know if that could be possible.

How about you guys, do you want a grand send off?

On a sidenote, I love these black candles.



"Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude"

 

[ma0]

No. Ideally, I'm forgotten and may as well have never existed in the first place.

Also those are some very nice black candles. ma0 approved.

 

[InTheAbyss]

For me no funeral or celebration of life thing. Just a cremation and be done with it.

 

[fuewybfunsfoiceoi]

no, I hope no one will remember, and there'd be no physical markings of where my remains are

 

[The Unanswered Q]

No, I want any proof that I ever existed completely destroyed.

 

[Pale_Rider]

I want a pine box. No preservative. Just put me in the ground. Ash to ash Dust to dust.

 

[Stan Swiftie]

No funeral.
The only ones who'd show up are my parents & my adopted brother anyways.
Cremation & burial, hopefully with Trixie's ashes (08/1999-06/2019). She was my first cat.

 

[Grav]

Yes, cremation; already pre-planned. Unless I'm ghostly floating around I won't see it but If it helps my family and friends to deal with however I go out then I have no issue with it. I just don't want a lot of money spent on it and would prefer they do a short funeral and spend more time on the wake/after party.

 

[onmywaytothebusstop]

No, i just want to dissapear from existence.

 

[bananaolympus]

No i don't care at all i don't care if i am buried or cremated but if i am cremated i would want my ashes to be thrown at the wind in a windy day

 

[catfriend]

nope, so expensive! cremation for me.

 

[-Tandem-]

No.

 

[Namelesa]

Definitely a funeral sounds too much for me but I don't mind if I am not forgotten about, especially if I remembered for being able to provide something good to others and those memories are good but I imagine that won't be the case for most as a lot of people will see my death as sad instead of something good.

 

[Scenegirlshooter]

no. Just a video will maybe explaining and reading why. and probably exposing my abusers.

 

[sadsoni]

Nope. I want to disappear and never be found. But somehow let family know am dead.

 

[cme-dme]

I personally don't care whether I get one or not because I'd be dead anyways >.<. I would leave the decision up to my family instead. Whatever makes it easier for them to cope with my death is fine by me

 

[FuneralCry]

No and if it's up to me I'd choose to permanently erase my existence so it's like I never suffered at all as all I wish for is to never suffer ever again, I just want all to be gone and forgotten for me, I just want to disappear from this existence I always saw as the most terrible tragic mistake and finally be at peace from the suffering and cruelty of existing, for me non-existence truly is all that's positive and is all I could wish for, I wish for no more pain and no more suffering.

 

[outrider567]

No, I will have no funeral

 

[AllAloneAndSad]

I am going to have a water cremation which I find really cool and my ashes spread out to sea.

 

[ringo99]

I'm going to get a funeral whether I want it or not. Personally idgaf. I do feel sorry for my parents who are going to have to cremate me while listening to my pos relatives gossip about the circumstances of my death. But I don't have any other choice. Continuing to live is only going to make things worse for me and people around me..

 

[Knoc]

The funerals are for your family members that you left behind, once you are dead nothing matters.

 

[Roadrunner]

No funeral for me.
The sooner I'm forgotten, the better it'll be for everyone, as for my ashes, either bury them where I buried my last dog's ashes, or put them out with the trash on garbage day.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

No.

I'm a failure and should be forgotten.

 

[Forever Sleep]

No, I wouldn't want one. I intend to pre-pay or arrange a direct cremation. I'd also love to be scattered in the sea but, I'm not sure they offer that. I guess if they flush me down the toilet, I'll eventually end up there!

I loved your quote at the end about the flowers. That struck me too- when you see flowers piled up at accident sites or on graves. Some of us may well receive more flowers when we're dead! Quite a waste really.

I suppose I can't help but think that sometimes when there are huge outpourings after a suicide. Cruel to say but, I wonder if they gave them that much attention when they were alive.

 

[yomander369]

Maybe. I just want to end my bodily suffering. It's unfair to be so injured for no reason.

I really don't care what happens to me after I'm dead.

 

[Forveleth]

I want Nature to have back what I have borrowed from it. I would love to be dumped in the middle of the woods. No fuss, no ceremony.

 

[Izzythebelle]

I'm not sure if I want a funeral for real, but I've fantasized and planned out the "ideal" funeral in my head. Spent countless hours and days and nights just writing every detail until it resembles a ball or gala more than a funeral.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Without a doubt I believe that last line to be true,, it's stronger then gratitude.

Personally I dont want a funeral, it's funny tho many people like to call it a celebration of life,, yea I suppose I'd be better to listen to music and keep a positive attitude but at the same time I can't agree with that form of a funeral at all,, it just feels so,, fake, EVERYONE THIS OS FOR THE ONE WHO DIED SO LETS AREE SAY CHEERS AND HAVE FUN DONT CRY BECAUSE THATS NOT WHAT HED WANT type shit, sorry now I'm just fuckin going off, I'm going to a celebration of life the days after my birthday for a man who god I can't forget, someone who's been more of a father to me in so many ways then my real father, fuck anyway no I wouldn't want a funeral ORRR a celebration of life

 

[Keef Girgo]

I wouldn't want a funeral/memorial or anything, I don't like the idea of people talking or even thinking about me, both while I'm alive, and following my eventual death.
I'd like to find a way to ensure a direct cremation following the autopsy or whatever the specific procedure is.

 

[JesiBel]

I don't want a funeral. They're too expensive, and I don't like the idea of my body being there like an exhibition.

Although I don't think it's possible, people who have hanged themselves look very bad..