Would you be in a relationship with someone who is strictly anti-choice when it comes to suicide?

[noname223]

I just dream about getting a gf. But I don't know when I would deny the relationship for sure. A very beautiful girl had once a crush on me. However she was drug addicted and I think she took really a lot of them. Moreover she had borderline and I once had really close contact with a girl with borderline and this friendship was really really crazy and hurt me a lot.

I think about things that would rule out a relationship. (As if I would ever find one...still...) I am not sure if I could be together who is strictly anti-choice and strictly pro-life. Especially when she would be a religious fundamentalist. Furthermore I think many of them treat suicidal people like little children or unfit to plead. I think I could never be together with someone with this attitude. Nevertheless I am not fully sure if she would not be too fanatic about it.
Do you have partners who are anti-choice? Could you imagine that?

 

[Meliæ]

No.

In the case of my partner would be asked what to do for me if I was about to end as a vegetable, I want to know he would say "let her go". My partner is not a simple friend, he could be ASKED for that kind of decisions.

I also need my partner to be OK for me to choose to go when my illness would be unbearable and respect my dignity and decisions.

 

[FuneralCry]

I would never want to be in a relationship with anyone anyway, but I would always stay away from people who are strictly pro life. I am strongly pro choice and believe in the right to die, that we should be the ones who decide when to end it, as only we are experiencing what we are going through. Nobody else has the right to dictate this. Pro lifers cannot comprehend what we go through.

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

I'm with someone that is anti-suicide. I think most folks are...and are that way in relationships. Suicide is the ultimate leaving the relationship. Do I wish he would listen and say: yeah you can do it? Yes. I have very little in common with my bf. It's due to his terrible taste in entertainment, delusional thinking (on his part) etc etc etc.

I think the only way to find someone down with you being suicidal is another suicidal person or someone okay with the ultimate departing which would mean they weren't that into the relationship.

Being suicidal is a real turn-off overall.

I guess it's possible to find someone who thinks suicide is okay...but to tell them you are suicidal puts another spin on the whole thing.