Who here has never had a bf or gf?

[filthyrottendirty]

Me ‍

 

[Snake of Eden]

I had it once and i wish i never had it only for that specific person

 

[Promortalist_]

Never had one, nor do I have the desire or the energy to find one.

 

[Elysium Searcher]

Me too, I've never been in any relationship. Sometimes I wish I could be with someone really close to me.

 

[FuneralCry]

I have never had one. I do not have any interest in relationships, I do not feel attracted to humans at all. From what I have heard, relationships just end up causing people pain. People can be very disappointing in general, I like being alone.

 

[Lost21]

Count me in

 

[Dystopia]

Never had one, nor do I have the desire or the energy to find one.

This sums it up for me too

 

[IWantToSleep]

I haven't.

 

[Superdeterminist]

Me, and it may bother me a lot or a little, depending on the day.

 

[Huntfish34]

Had a couple for a Short time.... Definitely wish I didn't.. Was more pain and heartache than I'd care to admit. Fckk.

 

[FireFox]

I never had a boyfriend and still a virgin at the age of 24 it is so embrassing and lonely. I feel like outsider amoung women my age because I have not experienced what they have in their lives.

Most women my age have had their first boyfriend and lost their virginites when they were teeangers.
Adult virginity regardless of gender is mocked by society ie society thinks you're weird if you have not lost it at 18.

Seeing all the girls at school having a boyfriend they looked so grown up and their lives were more fun than mine

Being a virgin it is a reminder if how immature I really am.

I plan to kill myself before 30 because at 30 my life as a woman is over if am still single. At 30 society sees women as old and a failure if woman have not got everything ie husband, children, career etc

Being single is so awful not having anyone to you they love you and appreciation the person you are.

 

[Dear Agony]

I have never, and I don't want to anymore, that would just be another reason to not CTB, and I've already made up my mind. It's too late now.

 

[Promortalist_]

I never had a boyfriend and still a virgin at the age of 24 it is so embrassing and lonely. I feel like outsider amoung women my age because I have not experienced what they have in their lives.

Most women my age have had their first boyfriend and lost their virginites when they were teeangers.
Adult virginity regardless of gender is mocked by society ie society thinks you're weird if you have not lost it at 18.

Seeing all the girls at school having a boyfriend they looked so grown up and their lives were more fun than mine

Being a virgin it is a reminder if how immature I really am.

I plan to kill myself before 30 because at 30 my life as a woman is over if am still single. At 30 society sees women as old and a failure if woman have not got everything ie husband, children, career etc

Being single is so awful not having anyone to you they love you and appreciation the person you are.

Not necessarily, I despise people so its feels amazing to be single. It's lot of work to be in a relationship. Everyone I have ever met are really unhappy or have too many responsibilities. For me personally, it is exhausting to even look at couples. Lol I feel sorry for them. Don't feel bad is what I am trying to say.

 

[death137]

Me :(

 

[insanedoomer]

Me

 

[Midgardsorm]

I never had a girlfriend. Not virgin, but I only been with a woman 3 times in my whole life. I'm 33 now, and my first time was ver late ( 24yo ).
Due to my physical health I doubt I will ever have any other experience, let alone find a significant other.

Had to see everyone I knew get married, have kids, disappear from my sight, forever happy.

I was born as a punching bag, that's all. There's are not victors without losers. I was assigned for the second role, unfortunately.

 

[peacetoall]

Me. 39 years old. Had girls and women show interest in me but I run away from all relationships. I've shamefully ghosted everyone except for my family, and I struggle to even communicate with them. I'm a high functioning avoidant. A coward who is scared of intimacy. I love to be alone but, I also at times fantasize about finding a companion.

 

[noxin]

Never have, never will. Relationships are hard work and after the bullshit friendships I've had to deal with, I don't ever want to take anything further. Being alone is freeing af.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

At 30 society sees women as old and a failure if woman have not got everything ie husband, children, career etc

Why cares what the literal enemy sees things as?

 

[noxin]

Why cares what the literal enemy sees things as?

Right?! Society says this, society says that. Well society can go f itself. On my good days, I'm running around being a happy single and couldn't care less what society expects of me.

 

[LifeQuitter2018]

Me neither. I've had girls turn "green light" on me but due to my shy and clumsy personality, I've never dared to speak up.

 

[Deleted member 8579]

Right?! Society says this, society says that. Well society can go f itself. On my good days, I'm running around being a happy single and couldn't care less what society expects of me.

 

[Sslsh]

The dating scene here doesn't favour socially anxious introverted men. I mean why would it? We are the least desirable kind of mates evolutionarily speaking. I've never had one and I honestly think I'll never have one. And that's alright. Women deserve better I guess.

 

[lofticries]

i've never had a boyfriend but i do have a harem of hawt animu husbandos.....do they count?

lol on a serious note i've never cared to have a romantic partner. i wanted a boyfriend when i was a teen but only for superficial reasons such as appearing normal to others. as terrible as this sounds if i find a guy attractive i only think about sex and that's pretty much it. or just casually seeing this person as an acquaintance. i'm too emotionally constipated to be in a relationship. it wouldn't be fair to the other person as well as myself.

edit: I also look at some people i'm attracted to in an aesthetic sense. meaning i have no desire for them sexually but find them visually appealing. hope that makes sense to some ppl.

Never had one, nor do I have the desire or the energy to find one.

me in a nutshell.

 

[overcomingfear]

I never had a boyfriend and still a virgin at the age of 24 it is so embrassing and lonely. I feel like outsider amoung women my age because I have not experienced what they have in their lives.

Most women my age have had their first boyfriend and lost their virginites when they were teeangers.
Adult virginity regardless of gender is mocked by society ie society thinks you're weird if you have not lost it at 18.

Seeing all the girls at school having a boyfriend they looked so grown up and their lives were more fun than mine

Being a virgin it is a reminder if how immature I really am.

I plan to kill myself before 30 because at 30 my life as a woman is over if am still single. At 30 society sees women as old and a failure if woman have not got everything ie husband, children, career etc

Being single is so awful not having anyone to you they love you and appreciation the person you are.

Some girls lose it at 14 and are sad about it because they've lost it with a stranger. Girls hate their boyfriends because they used and dumped them. Doubt you'd want to experience that. Don't compare yourself to other girls and don't think every couple has a perfect relationship. Maybe you wouldn't like sex much, because personally as a guy, after i had sex for the first time, i sat on the couch and thought "thats it"? Not to be mean but killing yourself because of being a virgin is like the stupidiest reason ever. You have a lot of time to fix that too, you're not 45 years old

 

[everydayiloveyou]

Me! It used to bother me a lot when I was young but I think I've mostly accepted it now. I had a guy asked me out once but I really think he had non-sexual ulterior motives. Also I'm gay so that makes things more awkward.

I think I'll die this way too.

 

[ClownMe]

me

 

[Sun]

me

 

[Simba]

I only ever had 1 real life bf and ½ bf on internet and that was it ,never had since..

 

[chocolatebar]

I never had a boyfriend and still a virgin at the age of 24 it is so embrassing and lonely. I feel like outsider amoung women my age because I have not experienced what they have in their lives.

Most women my age have had their first boyfriend and lost their virginites when they were teeangers.
Adult virginity regardless of gender is mocked by society ie society thinks you're weird if you have not lost it at 18.

Seeing all the girls at school having a boyfriend they looked so grown up and their lives were more fun than mine

Being a virgin it is a reminder if how immature I really am.

I plan to kill myself before 30 because at 30 my life as a woman is over if am still single. At 30 society sees women as old and a failure if woman have not got everything ie husband, children, career etc

Being single is so awful not having anyone to you they love you and appreciation the person you are.

You don't have to compare yourself with the other women. Nothing good can come out of this. Think about your life and how you can make it a little better, compared to your previous self. And you don't have to feel immature for being virgin, because maturity is all about the way you see the world. Age does feel like a weight on us. I also want to ctb before 30 and I'm running out of time, but I try to think about the significance of my age at death, and it has none.
I'm not really good with supportive words, bur I hope you understand what I wanted to say.

By the way, I'm coming back after a long time and I remember you! We never really talked, but it's so nice to see you still around!