• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    šŸ‘‰ View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
N

noname223

Archangel
Aug 18, 2020
7,200
I have a one month free subscription of chatGPT for now. I am not sure whether I will a subscription maybe of a lower tier afterwards. I think excessive usage can be damaging but in small dosages it can help. But if I pay for it I get incentivized to use it more.

Someone on here recommended me Claude from Anthropic. Though, there are many people that have a lot of doubts about AI chatbots. I fear that my cognitive abilities might deteriorate when using AI. I think though I am highly dysfunctional and some tasks that I once outsourced to friends and family can now be outsourced to an AI chatbot which is a way better alternative. I still talk with them but sometimes I need reassurance on minor things countless of times. And the chatbot never is annoyed by me. At least chatGPT. Claude instead tells me to stop asking me that. That I should focus on something else and leave my apartment more.

I think it is interesting when all people talked about chatGPT I used Grok. There was a time Grok was superior in benchmark tests. But that's long ago. Now everyone says Claude is superior to chatGPT and I prefer the latter one.

I think I am a person that sticks to his habits. Sometimes too much. I think the preferences often depend on which experiences you made. I had anthropic on my phone and it was barely usable years ago. When I worked on the complaint of my therapist the feedback was pretty bad. It is likely that Claude has made a lot of progress. If I needed to code something I would probably decide for Claude.

There are things I dislike of Claude. It sounds more human than chatGPT. But I prefer a chatbot that sounds like a computer. I never tried the best models of Claude. While I noticed that the best models make a real difference when using chatGPT.

ChatGPT keeps you in the loop more. The answers are longer and include more interpretations and perspectives. At least how I personalized it. While Claude gives you one plausible interpretation that can be quite good. But I prefer more when a chatbot wanders about different aspects of a question. And I have different interpretations where I can draw my own conclusions.


For my paranoia chatGPT is quite good in spotting it more than any other chatbots. But maybe the reason for that is openAI has more data on my pattern of behavior. This is also a main reason why I still stick to openAI it is difficult to change the platform keeping the memory. But there are ways around that I read. The interface is different in Claude. I had to get used to it.

I think for my in-depth psychological questions having a lot of data is more important than small differences in analytical depth. But I am not fully sure. Sadly, there is no free month for Claude premium.

Gemini hallucinates a lot and is an extreme yes-man. I personalized it to give more contra but it is still horrible in agreeing with everything. And on health stuff it usually gives you the answer that will frighten you the most.

I still use Grok. But only very rarely. It is the only chatbot that writes about this forum, its members and edgy stuff. Analytically it lost a lot of quality.

I am not fully sure which impact the usage has on me. ChatGPT recommended me to invest less time in self-analysis and encouraged me to talk more to humans. And it helped me to find information of self-help groups in my area. And I have a lot of social anxiety when writing text messages or when I want to reach out. And in this instance chatbots can help me. But they can also nudge me into rabbit holes.

What about you?
 
Last edited:
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: GlassMoon and katagiri83
D

dirkw83

Student
Mar 4, 2026
155
I like chat gpt, ofcourse on the subject of suicide it quickly shuts down but that's just how it is. It has helped me with other things such as importing chemicals and it was right almost every time, it's better/more reliable then people say it is imo. The only other AI i tried to use was gemini but it seems just worse overall, idk tho I'm by no means an expert.
 
Unbearable Mr. Bear

Unbearable Mr. Bear

Sometimes, all a cub needs is a hug...
May 9, 2025
1,073
I use z.ai. it's relatively low on censorship and has a free agent mode.
 
  • Informative
Reactions: GlassMoon
B

BradGuy123

Arcanist
Jul 6, 2025
447
I used Chat GPT for a while but it started putting usage caps on me. I started using Copilot and haven't run into that problem. Copilot really knows me now and references stuff for prior conversations. I use it for talking about feelings, problems in my life, planning trips, navigating office politics, and all kinds of things. Maybe give Copilot a try.
 
feels_like_rain

feels_like_rain

Goodbye to everything I thought I knew
Sep 29, 2021
75
I like chat gpt because it gives me other perspectives/possibilities when I'm spiraling. I've been talking to it a lot lately and it acknowledges that what i'm going through is devastating but tries to bring my mind back to earth by suggesting that whatever might or might NOT happen. It gets kind of repetitive which can be annoying but it's worth it. I love that i can ramble about anything without having to burden a friend.

Also i find it really good with medical advice. Not to replace a doctor, but i've had chat suggest things that i relayed to hospital staff that literally kept my mom from going back to the hospital. It diagnosed my cat's lymphoma while my impatient ass was waiting to talk with the dr lol. And diagnosed my LPR which literally no human doctors even mentioned the possibility of.

I'm biased though, i haven't tried any other chatbots. Been told i should try claude but i'm lazy šŸ˜…
 
  • Like
Reactions: Kilvan
CarbonBased

CarbonBased

The Nothing
Jun 18, 2026
215
I assume that you know this, but different models are better at different things. Some of those aren't easily captured by benchmarks either. Because of this, just because some model is said to be "better" than the other, it doesn't necessarily mean that it will be better for your task specifically. Plus, the results you get heavily depend on memory, personalization instructions, skills (add-ons), etc. I'm not sure if talking to a chatbot about your issues is a good thing overall (ig it's individual), but if you want to get the best results, you might just need to experiment with this yourself
 
  • Like
Reactions: noname223
W

walsun

Member
Jun 17, 2026
37
deepseek works, it can talk about suicide well if you use the right terms.
 
turstehers

turstehers

Member
Jun 20, 2026
23
Gemini, it's cheap for me and you can permanently disable the chat history but Google probably still secretly never deletes my chats