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i live in the country without a car so it's unfortunate but may have to be at home. my dad will find me :/ i don't see any way around it at this stage.
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I would love to get a nice hotel suite for one night but the cleaning fee is stopping me. I could try a timed text to hopefully prevent hotel staff from going up first when I didn't check out.
In your circumstance I would go with the car because it seems the least damaging to your wife. Sorry about your situation. I'm troubled about where to do it too.
I would love to get a nice hotel suite for one night but the cleaning fee is stopping me. I could try a timed text to hopefully prevent hotel staff from going up first when I didn't check out.
In your circumstance I would go with the car because it seems the least damaging to your wife. Sorry about your situation. I'm troubled about where to do it too.
No, but it doesn't actually matter from the research I did. You could lay down a lot of plastic for insurance and use poison for example. Even if you didn't vomit and were discovered within hours they strip the room. So your family/estate/savings will be on the hook with an exorbitant bill.
Out of the options listed, I would say hotel. I prefer the sound of of ctb in an isolated nature location, but hotel is second to that. I think it may cause more trauma for the family members left behind if they were the one to find you.
Hotel. I don't want to do it at home. I don't want to devalue it if my family decides to sell it in the future one day. I also don't want to traumatize them in that way either. A nice big hotel chain has the resources and money to clean up after as well
If I could afford it, I would feel comfortable doing it in a hotel. Putting the "do not disturb" placard on the door means I won't be bothered, but after I fail to check out they'll find me relatively quick.
I debated on booking a cheap motel for a night, but hearing about the cleaning bill is throwing me off. Around how much would it be?? I don't want my family to have to pay an outrageous amount for that.
I debated on booking a cheap motel for a night, but hearing about the cleaning bill is throwing me off. Around how much would it be?? I don't want my family to have to pay an outrageous amount for that.
Cheap motel would be less than luxury suite in a fancy place but no way to tell. The hotel hires professional cleaners and also chooses if they want to just replace the mattress and bed linens for example or replace the carpet, all the furniture, repaint the place. The neater the method and sooner the discovery the more likely the cost will be lower but no way to know for sure.
Cheap motel would be less than luxury suite in a fancy place but no way to tell. The hotel hires professional cleaners and also chooses if they want to just replace the mattress and bed linens for example or replace the carpet, all the furniture, repaint the place. The neater the method and sooner the discovery the more likely the cost will be lower but no way to know for sure.
I don't understand how there are legal grounds to get other people (that happen to be family) to pay for the hotel's cleaning fees. Seems absurd if the CTBer is over 18.
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I don't understand how there are legal grounds to get other people (that happen to be family) to pay for the hotel's cleaning fees. Seems absurd if the CTBer is over 18.
The family didn't sign any contract and they're not put in jail if someone in their family commits murder or whatever. I have no idea where people get this idea from. And how do you decide which family member pays the cost? Parents? Siblings? Grandmother?
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Had the same concerns - exactly the same, but with the house, I live in a cul de sac and have exceptionally nosey neighbours. I booked a hotel and then cancelled it as they take a damage deposit and I did not want them wiping out my account when I want the money to go to my family. Now thinking of a forest/woodland. Not ideal. But I cannot think of anywhere else. Cannot do it in my car as I intend to give my car to my brother.
The family didn't sign any contract and they're not put in jail if someone in their family commits murder or whatever. I have no idea where people get this idea from. And how do you decide which family member pays the cost? Parents? Siblings? Grandmother?
in my house with my friends around the tv. i live alone so no worrys about being saved. I have someone that is willing to be the person to come over and call the cops....
I don't understand how there are legal grounds to get other people (that happen to be family) to pay for the hotel's cleaning fees. Seems absurd if the CTBer is over 18.
I remember reading detailed accounts when I was researching hotel suicides in depth a while back. It's similar to how various agencies could come after your family for your debts or unpaid bills. They might not necessarily pay up in the end but I don't want them to have the trouble. And they could just clean out my savings account directly. The thought of all the effort of me slaving away at garbage jobs getting snatched by some mega rich hotel instead of going to my dad is revolting.
I remember reading detailed accounts when I was researching hotel suicides in depth a while back. It's similar to how various agencies could come after your family for your debts or unpaid bills. They might not necessarily pay up in the end but I don't want them to have the trouble. And they could just clean out my savings account directly. The thought of all the effort of me slaving away at garbage jobs getting snatched by some mega rich hotel instead of going to my dad is revolting.
The hotel hires professional cleaners and also chooses if they want to just replace the mattress and bed linens for example or replace the carpet, all the furniture, repaint the place.
None of the above. Personally, I plan to do it somewhere outside where I'm unlikely to be disturbed. There are several remote spots and empty lots near where I live thankfully.
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