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mochamochi

mochamochi

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Apr 2, 2024
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I'm planning to write separate notes for family, specific friends, and then a general one for other friends. What should I include? What should I exclude?
 
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AnonymousL

AnonymousL

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Apr 5, 2023
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I'm planning to write separate notes for family, specific friends, and then a general one for other friends. What should I include? What should I exclude?
I wish my best friend wrote or told me why.
Why he made the decision to end his life.

I would have wanted him to say that its not my fault if it wasn't.

There is never a day that goes by without me wondering what if I did this differently. Would he still be here?

I think thats important to include.
 
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iloverachel

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Mar 7, 2024
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Hmm some suggestions

-express gratitude for your loved ones. Show them how appreciative you are that they have been a part of your life
-maybe share your favorite memories with them
-maybe you could say how sorry you are for doing it, knowing they will be devastated
-let them know its not their fault at all so they don't feel guilt
 
Ociv

Ociv

Don't fear what's in your head
Mar 29, 2024
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For mine im thinking of including instructions for them. like, what do do with my belongings, funeral stuff, etc. I also want to fully explain how I feel and why I did it. anticipate every possible question they could have about me and answer it in the note. make it as long as it needs to be, hell write an entire book if I have to. I would want absolutely everything to be completely unambiguous.
 

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