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What is your sexual orientation?


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Alexandra_

Alexandra_

Don't Fear the Reaper
Sep 30, 2023
914
Please indicate your gender. Has your sexual orientation changed over the course of your life?

I am female and bisexual. I was heterosexual at first, but at a certain point, I realized that I was attracted to women as well, though not as often. My family doesn't know I'm bisexual; I could tell them, but I don't think they would really care
 
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SASU-KE

SASU-KE

⇡My dog⇡intercepts my SN package so I'm still here
Nov 26, 2025
1,348
Cis Male. Heterosexual.I haven't been attracted to a guy once in my life lol.
 
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.idiot

.idiot

lol
Sep 14, 2026
141
You can select every option in this vote by the way, for some reason.
I am the hetomobiApansexual.
 
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mlha

mlha

Ex falso quodlibet
Nov 7, 2021
287
I'm male. I've been in a LTR, but I never had crushes for example. Nowadays, I don't get aroused by visuals, I don't know if it was caused by me watching too much porn (it was mostly captioned pictures) or by me having two psychoses. But I'm afraid, I won't get aroused even if there were some hanky panky. So I'm feeling like I'm hetero/asexual. And this asexuality is a factor to my suicidality.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Angelic
May 10, 2025
4,358
I have always been asexual and I was born female
 
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kipper

kipper

Member
Mar 11, 2023
97
I am nonbinary and bi ace. I've always identified with these since I learned their meanings.
 
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kurikaesu

kurikaesu

the cause which isn't caused itself by anything
Mar 15, 2026
36
trans, wont disclose my gender. i have a preference for women but overall i'd date anything that walks and talks. havent been with a non-cis person yet though
 
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GodzillasBiggestFan

GodzillasBiggestFan

Godzilla's Lonely Bestie
Jan 12, 2026
549
im nonbinary and attracted to women.
 
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passthisnote

passthisnote

chronically online
May 6, 2026
126
i'm starting to think that i'm asexual or aro now but my whole life identified as straight so not sure yet trying to figure that out
 
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pond

pond

stuck like a nerf dart
May 8, 2018
314
Bisexual, though heavily leaning towards women.

I've always known that I was attracted to women. I liked women so much (lol) that I fell out of love with reading (because nearly all of the romance in contemporary YA/adult fiction that I would come across was heterosexual) by the end of middle school despite being someone who read 300+ page books almost everyday. The disdain won out and I eventually began hating books with female protagonists because they would always end up with guys, if romance was involved. It didn't help that I had a general distaste for men growing up because of bad experiences with them (childhood bullying and such). By high school, I had pretty nuch stopped reading as a hobby.

My sexuality will be going with me to my grave, or at least be hidden from my parents while I'm still alive. There are enough disappointing things about me that they don't need to know about this one.

Side note: I was never comfortable with saying "women" instead of "girls" because I felt/feel like a mutant child in the shell of an adult. And saying "women" would have felt like I was admitting to being an adult by referring to "other women, such as myself," but I'm slowly getting used to using that term. Not quite yet there though. I still kinda hate it.
 
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discernment

discernment

just surviving
Aug 11, 2026
119
i'm a woman who likes men and women :)
 
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Ferdinand Bardamu

Ferdinand Bardamu

I feel nothing more than existence
Feb 22, 2024
331
I call myself gay. It's not technically accurate because I'm bisexual but I prefer men so, although I know I can and have been attracted to women, it ftis better to call myself gay. I also have a BF so
 

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