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WhatPowerIs

WhatPowerIs

Enlightened
Jun 19, 2022
1,058
Anyone know what happened to @Another Day Empty?
I would like to know as well. He was incredibly kind to me. I last saw him leaving our chat and I think I saw a thread of his and it sounded like he was going to ctb but I cant find it
 
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Dysgenic Pup

Dysgenic Pup

A canine that’s not so heavenly.
Sep 18, 2021
435
Wait, wtf, why was @Unhirable banned? He/she was a lovely and very kind fellow.
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
25,157
What happened to @atari ?
 
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Dysgenic Pup

Dysgenic Pup

A canine that’s not so heavenly.
Sep 18, 2021
435
What happened to @atari ?
Left the site long ago and ghosted everyone (as far as I know) he was in contact with from here. No clue what happened or what he's up to now.
 
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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
6,553
What happened to @October112021 ? I hope he is okay.
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,483
What happened to @October112021 ? I hope he is okay.
Idk but l do know this person was gloating in chat about drugging a woman and having sex with her whilst she was comatose and unable to consent, with photographs included. This was not why he was banned given it was several days ago but l personally do not give a fuck if they're okay or not.
 
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noname223

Archangel
Aug 18, 2020
6,553
Idk but l do know this person was gloating in chat about drugging a woman and having sex with her whilst she was comatose and unable to consent, with photographs included. This was not why he was banned given it was several days ago but l personally do not give a fuck if they're okay or not.
Did not know that. I thought he was kind. Probably my judgement was wrong. That sounds pretty horrible.
 
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BitterlyAlive_

BitterlyAlive_

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Dec 8, 2020
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Idk but l do know this person was gloating in chat about drugging a woman and having sex with her whilst she was comatose and unable to consent, with photographs included. This was not why he was banned given it was several days ago but l personally do not give a fuck if they're okay or not.
That's messed up. Don't blame you for not caring tbh
 
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DreamSurfer

DreamSurfer

Beyond this reality the waves of peace await
Apr 8, 2022
110
Does anyone know if @WiltedSoul is ok? Haven't seen her online for over a month.
 
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Molded foundation

Student
Sep 17, 2021
136
Yo, what happened to @stellabelle ?
 
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Enlightened
Aug 14, 2022
1,290
Did @Julgran self-ban? I was not on here for a while and didn't pay much attention to what is going on.
Last seen 6 hours ago.
 
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RainAndSadness

RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,188
Idk but l do know this person was gloating in chat about drugging a woman and having sex with her whilst she was comatose and unable to consent, with photographs included. This was not why he was banned given it was several days ago but l personally do not give a fuck if they're okay or not.

No, he was banned exactly for that reason on top of other reasons after we conducted a thorough investigation into that member. Once again, if you're not satisfied with the speed we handle reports, feel free to apply. We can use any helping hand.
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,483
No, he was banned exactly for that reason on top of other reasons after we conducted a thorough investigation into that member. Once again, if you're not satisfied with the speed we handle reports, feel free to apply. We can use any helping hand.
That's not true and you know it. He was given a "warning" for it, this decision was challenged and subsequently defended on the basis that the user stated he planned to ctb in a few days and his continued membership was necessary in order for him to complete his objective due to connections he'd made here. He was allowed to continue posting for several days after an event which warranted an insta-ban, he literally bragged about committing a sexual assault and his supposed individual needs were placed above those of the rest of the forum. If you find it embarrassing having to defend these decisions so regularly it's probably wise to stop making them.
 
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RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,188
That's not true and you know it. He was given a "warning" for it, this decision was challenged and subsequently defended on the basis that the user stated he planned to ctb in a few days and his continued membership was necessary in order for him to complete his objective due to connections he'd made here. He was allowed to continue posting for several days after an event which warranted an insta-ban, he literally bragged about committing a sexual assault and his supposed individual needs were placed above those of the rest of the forum. If you find it embarrassing having to defend these decisions so regularly it's probably wise to stop making them.

And once again, he was banned for exactly that behavior and more once we opened an investigation and inquired more context. What you're listing here is exactly what you can read in the ban message. If you don't believe me, that's not my problem but there are users that can confirm that he was banned for exactly that reason. So once again, when you say he wasn't banned for this behavior, you're just wrong.
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
3,483
And once again, he was banned for exactly that behavior and more once we opened an investigation and inquired more context. What you're listing here is exactly what you can read in the ban message. If you don't believe me, that's not my problem but there are users that can confirm that he was banned for exactly that reason. So once again, when you say he wasn't banned for this behavior, you're just wrong.
So you're saying he wasn't initially warned, rather than banned, and this weird decision was not defended on the basis that he needed to maintain contact with his suicide partner? We both know this is true ffs, and if he was banned for *that* reason why the hell did it take two whole days for mods to decide whether a person describing a rape he had committed warranted a ban?
 
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Anonymous1997ES

Member
Jul 30, 2021
82
Greetings, does anyone know what happened to the user @motel rooms?
 
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Talvikki

Elementalist
Nov 18, 2021
859
What happened to @Hercules
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,111
@Molded foundation is crossed out now. 😥
 
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Smart No More

Visionary
May 5, 2021
2,726
Has anyone heard anything from @wljourney recently? They seem to have abruptly stopped logging in.
 
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Smart No More

Visionary
May 5, 2021
2,726
Has anyone heard anything from @wljourney recently? They seem to have abruptly stopped logging in.
I'd be lying if I said I'm not concerned but there's probably lots of reasons someone might go offline for a week or so. They didn't express any immediate intent to ctb or anything and they were interacting really normally. I don't know if that's a good or bad indicator. Guess it depends how you interpret it. I just hope they're okay. If anyone is in contact with them elsewhere could you pass on my regards please? Thanks.
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,111
I haven't seen anything from @Mixo (Mixolydian) for a while, and it appears that her profile has been made private (when it wasn't previously). Has anyone been in contact outside of SaSu?
 
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𖣴 nadia 𖣴

𖣴 nadia 𖣴

...member...
Dec 15, 2021
252
I haven't seen anything from @Mixo (Mixolydian) for a while, and it appears that her profile has been made private (when it wasn't previously). Has anyone been in contact outside of SaSu?
Yeah, she's okay, talked to her yesterday.
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,111
I've been missing them, so I checked.... @waitingforrest was last seen on October 20.
 
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Dysgenic Pup

Dysgenic Pup

A canine that’s not so heavenly.
Sep 18, 2021
435
@Molded foundation is crossed out now. 😥
He left because he felt he was addicted to this site and this site isn't exactly the best place to be.

What happened to @October112021 ? I hope he is okay.
He may return. This was only one of the accounts he has made. He keeps getting banned and then returning. @ThePaleWhiteLight, @GoingAwayParty, @October112021, and possibly more I don't know about.
 
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Cathy Ames

Cathy Ames

Cautionary Tale
Mar 11, 2022
2,111
He left because he felt he was addicted to this site and this site isn't exactly the best place to be.
Oh! Well, in that case, good for him! Thank you for telling me. Much appreciated.
 
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chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Paragon
Jul 11, 2021
973
Thy wre bannd a whle ag/ fr brkng th/ rles
I pity him. He looked like someone in deep pain, but who didn't accept help, hurting the ones who tried to approach him.
 
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