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Ghostly

Ghostly

Student
Nov 21, 2020
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my thoughts are all over the place half the time so i feel it would be hard to write a coherent note any tips to gather my thoughts to write a coherent note
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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My note will act as closure. If there was no note, family members would be left with unanswered questions. I think I will make a list of the main points that I want to say such as 'there is nothing you could have done' and 'now I am free from suffering'. I think doing that may make my note more coherent.
 
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aludnelac

wayward weirdo
Sep 15, 2021
55
it's hard to say, but if it's not too exhausting to accomplish, it could be a good idea to write something personalized to everyone you want to leave a final message to, so you're able to make sure you leave this world as understood as you possibly can.. i think with any piece of writing that has deep personal meaning, it might take multiple attempts before you feel like it conveys what you wanted to get out.. maybe try to start with making a short list of the main things you want people to know about, and then like go at it from there with a looser format with those points as a framework.. you could try getting recording personalized videos to yourself, pretending you're talking to the people you want to say goodbye to, maybe a verbal format like that will make it easier for your thoughts to come out and you'll feel inspired from that to find the right things to write.. :>
 
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bennay

Lost traveler
Sep 2, 2021
111
I would try to provide closure, although in my situation my family will know why. So mine will act as a comfort(I'll always be with you etc) partnered with explaining that there wasn't anything they could've done. I don't want anyone feeling guilty for my decision. Ill also provided my last wishes which will go with my will so that they don't have to stress and wonder what I would have wanted.
 
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