The reason I will never have children

[Busticket]

Life is very scary and stressful.
I don't want my potential children to experience the same fear and stress that I feel all the time.

 

[WornOutLife]

Yes, I agree.
Also, I'm not interested in bringing children into a world so cruel which will die sooner or later.
Why exist at all? Nonsense!

 

[NormaJeane]

The best thing I have done in my life is not to have children into a world where people are forced to choose between suicide and being slowly tormented to death.

 

[JustAMatterOfTime]

Children deserve good parents, sorry I am disqualified from that.

 

[FuneralCry]

I am never having children. I wish I was never born honestly, and it would be better to be fully ignorant of this world. This world is cruel, as it is full of suffering and there is no right to die where I live. I would not want to expose them to that.

 

[newave3]

I never had children and I am way too old to have them now. To have children you need to be mentally and fiscally stable which I have never been. Of course millions of crazy, poor people have kids anyway which is one of the reasons society is so messed up.

 

[BlankUser]

Honestly, I hate children. To me they're disgusting. There are only few kids that I can tolerate. A baby crying is the most irritating noise ever. I also did a lot of research about pregnancy and I realized that a fetus is just a parasite growing inside you. No thanks.
I hate that breeders want to force me to get pregnant.

 

[Symbiote]

The world is too fucked up and beyond saving to be having children. Always will be someone or some event that is ready to snatch the life out of them

 

[Ramirez]

Honestly, I hate children. To me they're disgusting. There are only few kids that I can tolerate. A baby crying is the most irritating noise ever. I also did a lot of research about pregnancy and I realized that a fetus is just a parasite growing inside you. No thanks.
I hate that breeders want to force me to get pregnant.

I hear you. And honestly children can be very cruel and judgemental. I mean some of them indulge in mobbing till others their age try to kill themself. Not all of course.

 

[listeningpost1379]

Women have every reason to not go through traumatic pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum bleeding/health issues on top of caring for an infant around the clock. There is beauty in humanity but no one is required to sacrifice to keep it going.

 

[Ramirez]

There is beauty in humanity

Really? Is there though? We are the only species on this planet who torture and kill eatch other for pretty much no reason. Animals dont torture or enslave others. I dont see much beauty in that .sorry to disagree.

 

[Deadlyroses]

I feel the same way. I hate that I was born. I wish I had never been born. I never asked to fucking be here. I hate existing. I hate it here. I would never bring an innocent person into a world that I hate. That would just be cruel. Also...MY depressed, reclusive, and anxious ass has no business being anyone's mother. Absolutely none. I will CTB in peace knowing I didn't pass down my depressive, anxious, ADHD having, suicidal genes. And that I didn't leave behind a person who I brought into this world.

 

[lofticries]

Even if I had a child and by some miracle their life doesn't turn out like shit, who is to say their kid won't suffer and so on. I'm tired of this carrying the linage crap that some ppl talk about. Who is to say your kids will birth kids who birth kids. What if by some chance they die or decide not to have kids in the end. Nah, the cycle of suffering ends with me.

 

[Hurt]

Personally I decided NOT to have children because happiness is not warranted for anyone. I don't want to bring a person into a world of suffering. My parents raised me well but I just messed up my life in my adulthood.

 

[down for the count]

I never had children and I am way too old to have them now. To have children you need to be mentally and fiscally stable which I have never been. Of course millions of crazy, poor people have kids anyway which is one of the reasons society is so messed up.

I am pretty much in the same boat.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

All of these reasons and more. And that no one wants to fuck me....

 

[listeningpost1379]

Really? Is there though? We are the only species on this planet who torture and kill eatch other for pretty much no reason. Animals dont torture or enslave others. I dont see much beauty in that .sorry to disagree.

our bloated civilisation sucks but the rest of nature is much more cruel. besides, it is only a handful of men who wage war, enslave and kill. humanity still have women who havent committed anything on that scale. dont be sorry, its fine to disagree

 

[LakatosDiogenesz]

Even if life was guaranteed to be at least 50% good it would still be immoral. The factor that makes most crimes wrong is the breach of consent, crimes such as stealing/rape/murder (as opposed to donation/sex/euthanasia). A nonexistent being can't consent to being born therefore giving birth to it is wrong.
You need to be at least 18 years old in most countries to sign a contract after all. Being born carries more weight than any earthly contract.

 

[alwaysSuffering]

I knew early on that I would never want kids. I didn't think anyone should ever experience the hell I've experienced and I didn't think I'd make a good parent. But it took me YEARS to find a dr who would do a permanent birth control method on me because everyone is convinced that if you're a woman, you'll want kids one day. Like one day I would suddenly wake up and decide I wanted kids even though I hadn't ever wanted any, EVER. Like I can't make my own decision on that. I had to suffer for over 2 decades with debilitating menstrual symptoms before finally finding a gyno who would do the procedure I needed (which ended menstual cycles and the ability to have children) finally, in my mid 30s.