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hedezev4

hedezev4

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May 29, 2025
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I wanted to make this post because I think many people underestimate how common suicide actually is.
Like me — and probably many others who've looked up the stats at some point — I didn't fully understand the scale of it.
At first, I thought the figure of 10–25 per 100,000 referred to a lifetime risk, not a yearly one.
Earlier today I saw a post, and most of what I'm sharing here is actually a reply to that. In that post, someone claimed that only 1 in 150,000 people die by suicide. I replied in detail, and after writing it all out, I felt like it deserved its own post.

I'll use statistics from my own country. According to different sources, there are:

  1. 11 suicides per 100,000 people per year (official data), and
  2. 25 per 100,000 per year (according to the World Health Organization).
If we take the average life expectancy — 72 years — we get:

1. 11 × 72 = 835 suicides per 100,000 over a lifetime
100,000 / 835 = 1 in 120

2.
25 × 72 = 1,807
100,000 / 1,807 = 1 in 55

So over a lifetime, somewhere between 1 in 120 and 1 in 55 people die by suicide.
It's also possible to adjust for age, as suicide risk differs across age groups, but I chose not to include that here.
We can also break it down by gender — in my country, around 80% of suicides are committed by men.

For men:

  1. 80% of 835 = 668
    50,000 (half of population) / 668 = 1 in 75
  2. 80% of 1,807 = 1,445
    50,000 / 1,445 = 1 in 35
For women:
  1. 20% of 835 = 167
    50,000 / 167 = 1 in 299
  2. 20% of 1,807 = 362
    50,000 / 362 = 1 in 138

So the lifetime suicide risk for men is roughly 1 in 35 to 1 in 75, and for women it's 1 in 138 to 1 in 299.
These numbers can go even higher if someone has additional risk factors — such as mental illness, substance abuse (including alcohol), unemployment, a previous suicide attempt, social isolation or loneliness, the loss of a relationship, academic failure, or belonging to the LGBTQ+.
So in the end, suicide is not as rare as people often think.
 
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dust-in-the-wind

dust-in-the-wind

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Aug 24, 2024
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It just isn't talked about because of the stigma. That is why normal people have the impression it's not common.
 
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Darkover

Darkover

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Jul 29, 2021
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evidence suggests the lifetime worldwide prevalence of suicide is around
1% that's 80 million people, and the one-year prevalence is around 0.01% that's 800,000 people,
the lifetime worldwide prevalence of attempted suicide is around
5% that's 400 million people, and the one-year prevalence is around 0.2% that's 16 million people

1 in 20 will attempt suicide during their lifetime
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,391
I always wish to be them as all I want is to never suffer in this cruel, torturous and deeply undesirable existence I always saw as a mistake, for me non-existence is just all that's positive for me and is all I see as desirable.

I just wish for an eternal dreamless sleep free from all cruelty and suffering where this existence is all gone and forgotten and I'd just always prefer to not exist than be burdened with this existence of unnecessary suffering with no limit as to how much agony I can feel, I always suffer from how I cannot just have the option to cease existing peacefully and never suffer ever again, I'd never wish to exist in this horrific anti-suicide world.
 
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thereisnoneed

thereisnoneed

Student
Jan 23, 2020
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I wanted to make this post because I think many people underestimate how common suicide actually is.
Like me — and probably many others who've looked up the stats at some point — I didn't fully understand the scale of it.
At first, I thought the figure of 10–25 per 100,000 referred to a lifetime risk, not a yearly one.
Earlier today I saw a post, and most of what I'm sharing here is actually a reply to that. In that post, someone claimed that only 1 in 150,000 people die by suicide. I replied in detail, and after writing it all out, I felt like it deserved its own post.

I'll use statistics from my own country. According to different sources, there are:

  1. 11 suicides per 100,000 people per year (official data), and
  2. 25 per 100,000 per year (according to the World Health Organization).
If we take the average life expectancy — 72 years — we get:

1. 11 × 72 = 835 suicides per 100,000 over a lifetime
100,000 / 835 = 1 in 120

2.
25 × 72 = 1,807
100,000 / 1,807 = 1 in 55

So over a lifetime, somewhere between 1 in 120 and 1 in 55 people die by suicide.
It's also possible to adjust for age, as suicide risk differs across age groups, but I chose not to include that here.
We can also break it down by gender — in my country, around 80% of suicides are committed by men.

For men:

  1. 80% of 835 = 668
    50,000 (half of population) / 668 = 1 in 75
  2. 80% of 1,807 = 1,445
    50,000 / 1,445 = 1 in 35
For women:
  1. 20% of 835 = 167
    50,000 / 167 = 1 in 299
  2. 20% of 1,807 = 362
    50,000 / 362 = 1 in 138

So the lifetime suicide risk for men is roughly 1 in 35 to 1 in 75, and for women it's 1 in 138 to 1 in 299.
These numbers can go even higher if someone has additional risk factors — such as mental illness, substance abuse (including alcohol), unemployment, a previous suicide attempt, social isolation or loneliness, the loss of a relationship, academic failure, or belonging to the LGBTQ+.
So in the end, suicide is not as rare as people often think.
I wrote about this last night on another thread, many countries have a HUGE stigma on this topic and most C.T.B cases just get reported as "incidents":

"places like the Islamic world where suicide is a huge taboo tend to have misleading suicide stats, because mostly they get reported as incidents thanks to shame that it brings to the families in question, they keep it a secret and tell everyone that it was an incident, because they don't want to say that their child/partner/parent/sibling etc commited suicide."
 
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Apathy79

Apathy79

Elementalist
Oct 13, 2019
833
evidence suggests the lifetime worldwide prevalence of suicide is around
1% that's 80 million people, and the one-year prevalence is around 0.01% that's 800,000 people,
the lifetime worldwide prevalence of attempted suicide is around
5% that's 400 million people, and the one-year prevalence is around 0.2% that's 16 million people

1 in 20 will attempt suicide during their lifetime
These feel about right anecdotally too. And line up with the OP. That's a lot of attempted suicides. We're not so niche here after all.
 
SoulWhisperer

SoulWhisperer

Severe Medical Phobia « MtF »
Nov 13, 2023
543
Interesting post, I've read something about frequency and relative rarity of deaths by suicide.
 
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wham311

Mage
Mar 1, 2025
594
Just makes me livid that I was put in a place that so many people want out of.

Makes me feel even worse that my parents were doing so much better than me that they couldn't have imagined I'd do this poorly
 
Manic Panic

Manic Panic

Deaths Embrace
Jan 5, 2025
706
Good job doing all the work for this post! Suicide itself is usually something people don't publicly disclose for others , it's highly stigmatized.
People are afraid of losing people because in return they could follow after them.
 
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bananaolympus

Specialist
Dec 12, 2024
322
Well it is the number 1 cause of death of ppl aged 18-25 i believe
 

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