Some people just don't get it

[ihatemylife]

Some people are just so freaking annoying. I have chronic pain/illness and severe depression yet I have an annoying neighbor who constantly invites me to go on walks with him. Today I told him I don't physically OR MENATLY feel up to it. He just keeps persisting. Can't people get a clue you would like to be left alone Its not out of caring either. its he just wants an ear so he can talk talk talk continuously about himself. Its like people want you to just pretend everything is ok and I have news for him I'm done with doing that shit. I done putting on a smile and listening to him ramble how life is so great and all his stupid plans he has. I've done that shit for too long to make other feel comfortable. My new policy is when someone asks how I am I no longer just say fine, in order to make them feel comfortable. I'm going to tell them straight out - I'm horrible. , I'm basically wishing for death each day. I'm going to make him feel uncomfortable as possible. Not sure why someone would do that, if someone told me they don't want to hang out I am fine with that, I would just say if you feel up to it some time call me and leave it at that. What an annoying weirdo. Give people some fucking space!!! Unless your in a wheelchair people cannot fathom that you are suffering in any way.

 

[Rational man]

You have pretended to be okay, when in fact you are not. Now you intend to be truthful to other people. More important, to be true to YOU.

You choose to pretend and its possible some people have misread you.

i have my own chronic pain so i do understand. Im afraid pain.can be invisible, even to medics. Its not until other people suffer pain do they realise how dibiliting it can be. Physical pain can destroy us psychologically and we become alienated by people around us who can't cope with our awfulness....

 

[FuneralCry]

Yes, if someone has not suffered in similar ways, they will never be able to comprehend what it is like. Health problems can torture us and there can be no limit as to how bad it can get. People can be very frustrating, in general I cannot stand people. I see it as better to stay away as then they cannot irritate me. I also wish for death everyday, I hope you find peace.

 

[Butterflyfree]

Some people are just so freaking annoying. I have chronic pain/illness and severe depression yet I have an annoying neighbor who constantly invites me to go on walks with him. Today I told him I don't physically OR MENATLY feel up to it. He just keeps persisting. Can't people get a clue you would like to be left alone Its not out of caring either. its he just wants an ear so he can talk talk talk continuously about himself. Its like people want you to just pretend everything is ok and I have news for him I'm done with doing that shit. I done putting on a smile and listening to him ramble how life is so great and all his stupid plans he has. I've done that shit for too long to make other feel comfortable. My new policy is when someone asks how I am I no longer just say fine, in order to make them feel comfortable. I'm going to tell them straight out - I'm horrible. , I'm basically wishing for death each day. I'm going to make him feel uncomfortable as possible. Not sure why someone would do that, if someone told me they don't want to hang out I am fine with that, I would just say if you feel up to it some time call me and leave it at that. What an annoying weirdo. Give people some fucking space!!! Unless your in a wheelchair people cannot fathom that you are suffering in any way.

I am in a wheelchair and people still do that to me. They somehow act as if I should try harder things will magically get better.