Some people here should not be mods.

[violetdevil]

Constant invalidation of CTB concerns, who do you think you are? This site is not safe anymore.

 

[Ta555]

Constant invalidation of CTB concerns, who do you think you are? This site is not safe anymore.

What do you mean?

 

[violetdevil]

What do you mean?

It doesn't matter, because I'm literally nothing on here. My feelings don't matter.

 

[LastLoveLetter]

Constant invalidation of CTB concerns, who do you think you are? This site is not safe anymore.

Could you please provide some specific examples of who invalidated these concerns and when? I have genuinely only seen the Mod team be supportive, and several of us have actually repeatedly stated that invalidating people's feelings, reasons and concerns is not acceptable here. I am not suggesting we are infallible or that we cannot make mistakes, but I have yet to see any of us invalidate people's concerns surrounding suicide.

Constructive feedback is welcome (and your feelings certainly do matter), but I am struggling to find any here. Cryptic, vague complaints do not benefit the site or help the staff team to improve. If you are prepared to elaborate on your concerns, I am willing to listen.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

@violetdevil @Persephone ❦

I would take this private. It might be difficult to talk about in public for various reasons. I saw on violet's page there is some mention of things on wednesday but I can't see anything about it in posts. Something was removed?

 

[noname223]

I have made positive experiences with the mods. Though I don't want to question your feelings. I don't want to say it publicly but they helped my with a huge problem that I had. And I know in other places they would not have accepted my behavior. I know I am sometimes weird.

 

[violetdevil]

Could you please provide some specific examples of who invalidated these concerns and when? I have genuinely only seen the Mod team be supportive, and several of us have actually repeatedly stated that invalidating people's feelings, reasons and concerns is not acceptable here. I am not suggesting we are infallible or that we cannot make mistakes, but I have yet to see any of us invalidate people's concerns surrounding suicide.

Constructive feedback is welcome (and your feelings certainly do matter), but I am struggling to find any here. Cryptic, vague complaints do not benefit the site or help the staff team to improve. If you are prepared to elaborate on your concerns, I am willing to listen.

No its ok, my feelings certainly do not matter on here.

 

[LastLoveLetter]

No its ok, my feelings certainly do not matter on here.

I care about your feelings. I won't go into this topic publicly but myself and another Mod have addressed the content you reported.

Please do directly and privately report any further issues and we will gladly take a look for you and make sure any inappropriate behaviour is dealt with. Please feel free to PM us with any further concerns as well if you would like to discuss things further. Thank you.

 

[FuneralCry]

I'm pretty sure there is the option to ignore members as well. I'm sorry you have had this experience, nobody should be invalidated. People who do that should not be on the forum. Some people can be very unpleasant. I wish you the best.

 

[violetdevil]

I'm pretty sure there is the option to ignore members as well. I'm sorry you have had this experience, nobody should be invalidated. People who do that should not be on the forum. Some people can be very unpleasant. I wish you the best.

I cant ignore a mod.