Social Networks After CtB?

[PureMetanoia]

Have you considered the life of your social media profiles after you CtB? Would you rather leave your Facebook/Insta/ect as a digital "shrine" of sorts for those touched by your departure to visit in hopes it will diminish their anguish or rather you don't want to be frozen in time/remembered through a vignette such as social media?

Personally, as I inch closer and closer to being ready for my departure, I have been "tying loose ends" - as in, erasing myself from the everyday life of my close friends and the field of view of acquaintances in an effort to have everyone experience my disappearance while I am still alive, thus blame me and not some ephemeral entity such as sickness or God for losing their buddy - which also means I have deactivated FB/Insta/Twitter; however now that I am not only at the bus stop, but almost in the bus - I am thinking of reopening them to give interested people a way to mourn. Any thoughts? I'm pretty torn over it...

Anyway, have a good day and I hope to hear from ya ;3

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Don't use them, don't even care about how I'm remembered by first degree relatives IRL, lol.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

I don't use FAKEBOOK or Twatter or any of those hateful unsocial media platforms! Stuff the lot of them!

 

[virginiawoolf]

it might be nice for them to have a memento

 

[Deleted_9cKnXB34QG]

I've never used social media aside from reddit and that account is already deleted. The best thing about the internet for me is being anonymous, I would never ever use my real name anywhere - that's just weird.

 

[nopointofliving]

I have no social media accounts

 

[Anonymous_A]

Wouldnt actually do this but leaving a post like

'Dont come out of the woodworks now, don't post condolences, don't act like you knew me just because I'm dead.
Even if we we to school/college/uni together, doesn't mean you knew me'

'thnx. k. Bye lol xox'

Don't have any bad blood with anyone, and honestly don't think anyone has any with me. But fml, i cringe so hard seeing people who post about somebody they 'knew' when in fact they didn't.

 

[saltshaker]

I like how it host most people here are abstaining from social media, it's vile.

I also use no social media, and if my family were to mourn me on it i guess i won't be around to be angry about it anymore.

 

[Soulless Angel]

I fucking hate social media but need it for my failed attempt at working, I would go through and delete everything I don't want found first, as I know my husband would log in and read everything! He wouldn't give a toss about privacy, then I would deactivate them. I don't post much personal stuff if anything anyway, so not worried about public stuff being seen, its more PMs etc

 

[M Berry M]

i think i would keep things up as i don't use them much to begin with

 

[UseItOrLoseIt]

My FB account will be my only legacy. I wonder if I'll get some retroactive likes. Everybody likes a dead person more than a living one.

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't have any accounts. I have a strong dislike to all of those websites, I'm glad others see the same way. They are just toxic, people get offended over everything. I like having an anonymous presence on the internet.

 

[landojustwannactb]

I fucking hate social media but need it for my failed attempt at working, I would go through and delete everything I don't want found first, as I know my husband would log in and read everything! He wouldn't give a toss about privacy, then I would deactivate them. I don't post much personal stuff if anything anyway, so not worried about public stuff being seen, its more PMs etc

Youre hiding something

 

[Soulless Angel]

Youre hiding something

Depends on what you class as hiding something? I run my own business a lot of my messages are confidential!

 

[TheBlackSwordsman]

I'm on social media. I dont really communicate much outside of it. Im in a few mental health and suicide support groups on facebook, lots of friendly and supportive members there but of course you cant be blunt like you can over here. I may delete them all before the end.

 

[Jiroscope]

I've debated this for a long time, but I still haven't reached a conclusion. Do I leave a post explaining why? On one hand, fuck everyone. On the other hand, it might be nice for people who might care to have an explanation.