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bigworm

bigworm

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Jul 20, 2024
21
I have a decent amount of belongings and do have stuff coming in the mail. I also have feelings towards certain people that I'd want to express. I am not sure if I should express how I feel to these people through a suicide note or not. I also don't know what to have my family do with my belongings (est. resale value of 1700 USD)
 
CHOSEVIOLENCE

CHOSEVIOLENCE

♱ No more counting dollars we'll be counting stars
Jul 24, 2024
32
It's really up to you and whether you want to provide people with a bit of closure after the fact. I don't really see the need for a note myself since I'm in a homeless shelter and there's not much I want to say to anyone here. For your items, you could sell them and leave your close ones the money, or just leave them your belongings at is.
 
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bigworm

bigworm

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Jul 20, 2024
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It's really up to you and whether you want to provide people with a bit of closure after the fact. I don't really see the need for a note myself since I'm in a homeless shelter and there's not much I want to say to anyone here. For your items, you could sell them and leave your close ones the money, or just leave them your belongings at is.
im planning to ctb tonite i think id rather let people in my life live with ignorance than knowing the reason to blame was rhem
im just gonna leave a note telling them to sell my belongings because if i listed them myself people would be concered
 
smaragdyne

smaragdyne

Member
Jul 21, 2024
62
If you're writing a note for other people I wouldn't worry about it to be honest. They'll rationalize away any potential lessons to be learned; people tend to say stuff like "oh, they weren't in their right mind anyway since they would do something like CTB".

I think you should express yourself if that's what you feel is right. Just don't do it for other people's sake. Just my opinion.

See you around, on this side or the other one :)
 
CHOSEVIOLENCE

CHOSEVIOLENCE

♱ No more counting dollars we'll be counting stars
Jul 24, 2024
32
im planning to ctb tonite i think id rather let people in my life live with ignorance than knowing the reason to blame was rhem
im just gonna leave a note telling them to sell my belongings because if i listed them myself people would be concered
That makes sense. I hope you find what you're looking for on the other side.
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,493
It's up to the individual whether to leave one, I believe it to be a personal decision after all, only they know if it's the right thing for them. But anyway best wishes, I hope you find the peace you search for.
 
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elsignifier

New Member
Oct 15, 2023
4
If you're questioning it, then leave one-- you're catching a bus that will never return. Please don't leave without saying everything that you absolutely needed to.
 
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mrtime87

Experienced
Jul 9, 2024
208
Might as well get it what you have to say out to those around you. At least give them closure


What's your method if I might ask?
 

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