Share your biggest lessons before you die!

[SexyIncél]

You probably had lots of ruminations, figuring out what you Should Have Done.

Please share your greatest lessons! Most of us had shitty parents who shared shitty 'wisdom'. Give us your hard-won lessons!

 

[Hollowman]

Don't do drugs and stay away from psychiatrists.

 

[swanlake]

- Don't tell people you want to kill yourself, even if you think by telling them ahead of time you are softening the blow
- Be a farmer
- Don't post your business on social media

 

[flightless bird]

• Dreams die first.
• Don't waste your time praying to gods.
• The worst things happen to the best people.
• Anger is always better than despair.
• You can become good at anything if you practice hard enough.

 

[Cryptonite]

• Doctors are much less knowledgeable than generally anticipated. Misdiagnosis is extremely common. Do your own medical research before it's too late.
• Don't have children unless you're perfectly mentally and physically healthy.
• World is extremely random. You need to do everything to control this randomness. Do everything to stay safe from the time you wake up until you fall asleep.

 

[Hystearical]

If you're going to sacrifice for someone, you had better be damn sure they're worth it.

 

[AliceTheGoon]

Don't do drugs and stay away from psychiatrists.

I wish psychiatrists would come here and see what they've done to people.

 

[Hollowman]

I wish psychiatrists would come here and see what they've done to people.

Some probably have, would it have any effect on them? I doubt it the $ is too easy.

 

[Everlong]

•Trust your gut, not the asshole in your head.
•Think things through to the end before you do anything. All the way. Before anything.
•There are people out there who can relate to you. Even if you're suicidal.
•Dogs are Zen Masters.

 

[Astronauta]

-Não faça nada ,que você não queira fazer fazer, para agradar alguém.
-No final, você está sempre sozinho.

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

Life is not a dress rehearsal. Engage and participate from the earliest possible age.

 

[Everlong]

-Não faça nada você não quer fazer, para agradar alguém.
-No final, você está sempre sozinho.

We leave as we came. Well said

 

[FuneralCry]

That staying alive only prolongs suffering, I should have found a way to leave as soon as possible.

 

[narval]

Beware with things that looks too good. even if there's not misintents behind, other things could be involucred (like hurry up things, ignorance or perception errors)

 

[GrizzlyGrapefruit]

Medication should be an absolute last resort, especially if it's prescription.
Stop trying to grow up so fast

 

[Shivali]

Nothing is contollable. The only thing that can help is radical acceptance of what is, no matter whatever it is ...

 

[Julgran]

Stop worrying about the hard things in life, and start living instead - you will die eventually anyway

 

[Darkover]

don't do drugs they mess you up in the end

 

[Funeralprincess]

1) Don't have false hope when it comes to recovery. Most people who recover lucked into good finances, were conventionally attractive, etc. they got into a better spot because they had some social privilege. If you're old, fat, poor, or ugly your chances at a heavily fruitful life after mental illness are minuscule.

2) Do not tell people you are suicidal unless you REALLY know their views on self chosen death.

3) ALWAYS lie to therapists and psychiatrists no matter how trustworthy they may seem.

4) love is ALWAYS conditional. Do not think you are the exception to the rule.

5) ALWAYS trust your gut feelings.

6) NEVER post about your suicidal feelings on social media… people will use it against you.

7) If you make sacrifices for people, stop doing it. 99.9999 percent of people are selfish so, become the asshole who only looks out for themselves. This isn't a world to play nice in unless you want to stay at the bottom.

 

[want2dienow]

never be a memory

 

[tipsytiger]

Don't expect anything, expectations are thieves of joy

 

[ikkii]

Life isn't for everyone

 

[SunshineAndSuicide]

Through trauma caused by their parents, your parents will undoubtedly fuck you up for life. The cycle will continue until you decide to stop it, and even if it stops with you, your life is still ruined.

 

[chronicallybroken]

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Then run.

 

[thebunny]

don't let anyone take advantage of you. if someone does, cut them off.
most importantly, you do you. fuck what everyone else thinks.

 

[Lost Magic]

expect the unexpected
Don't think you have control over everything
Try and stay away from toxic people, if you can
don't always be too hard on yourself. It's not always your fault
Practice forgiveness and let go of everything that is bringing you down
Breathe deep

 

[Jimblue]

Do not be with a man just because he says he "love" you or "like" you. High likely he does not.

 

[Hope:-)]

* Don't take medication for your mind- you're fine how you are. Don't pathologise yourself or allow yourself to be pathologised.
* Don't think you're not good looking enough. Again, you're fine as you are, and things can always be worse. I used to think I didn't look good enough when I was really quite pretty, and then I injured my face so just be grateful for what you have.
* Get away from a toxic situation asap. Don't ever think it's okay.
* Basically, just make the most of your life. :-)

 

[Famous Last Words]

 

[justanotherone2022]

Trust people actions, never words.