Receiving triggering PM's

[motel rooms]

(I was sexually abused by my father as a little boy)

 

[summers]

Not sure who that piece of shit homophobe is, but @hotelbeneathground is a good guy and doesn't deserve this shit. Ban that mf.

Losteverythingtwice is the type of asshole who puts down gay people, but would happily pay for a a gay guy or trans girl to fuck them up the ass.

 

[motel rooms]

 

[deflationary]

Wow. I'm shocked that I'm still capable of being shocked by people.

 

[Makko]

There's a difference between being temperamental/unstable and being completely incapable of keeping basic etiquette. In the latter case you don't get to stay in any community, on or off the internet.

 

[NoDream]

This is pure terror. I would not have survived getting that....You have to report and the person writing this shit should be mega banned from internet for life since he cant understand he could kill someone.
Maybe allready have....

 

[suicidesheep31]

It is just insane.
I just apologize for this guy/girl who apparently doesn't know how such thing can hurt badly!!!!
I am also shocked to read that......

 

[LastLoveLetter]

I cried. How could anyone here speak to another member like this? This is absolutely vile. It is disturbing that there are members here that will use people's history of abuse and atrocities against them.

I have reported his public post about you and I hope he is banned for such heinous conduct. No-one here should ever have to experience a fellow member antagonising them with their very worst traumas. There should be zero tolerance towards it.

I am so sorry @hotelbeneathground. You have survived soul-destroying trauma at the hands of your own father and are often forced to relive those moments. The last thing you need is some scumbag mocking those experiences and deliberately provoking and triggering you. I normally refrain from insults, but this truly is the behaviour of absolute scum. I am so furious. You cannot stoop much lower, especially on a suicide forum - an environment that is supposed to be a sanctuary for the suicidal, which includes those who have endured all kinds of experiences (and in some cases, the worst tortures that humanity is capable of inflicting).

People's pain should never, ever be ammunition. Child rape is not a fucking joke. Comments like that can push a person over the edge.

I am sending you lots of love and hugs. If there is anything I can do to help and support you, I am here for you.

 

[hlynn95]

Lol this is kinda funny in a way! He's trolling you but thinks it's entertaining that you are gay ?!

 

[callme]

Wonder what did you say before this first post shown here to enrage this guy? Still not sure how it happened. Have you already reported him, grandad?

 

[BitterlyAlive_]

This is horrific and I'm sorry you ever received any messages like that. I don't know what was apparently said that made this person so angry, or why they felt the need to PM you about it (we have the ignore/report buttons for a reason…), but you definitely didn't deserve this. Those messages are vile, cruel, and honestly sound retraumatizing. Would love to say more but @-Persephone- has summed it up pretty well.

Hope you're doing okay.

 

[Amumu]

Is it just me or this place is becoming more and more hardcore?

"I don't like what you say, so I'll make fun of you being abused / you should shoot yourself / etc. etc."

People get angry easily these days. You can't have a proper conversation without ad hominem stuff like that.

 

[deadverysoon]

what the fuck?!!
its hard to deal with such messages - i recieved such things in peron and on other platforms and at my last job. that really broke me.
im sorry you have to deal with such an idiot!

 

[Apricity]

Looks like that asshole is gone. Hopefully they IP banned them.
Edit: Their posts are here but I can't find them in search, so idk.

I'm sorry @hotelbeneathground, people like that don't have a place here, or anywhere for that matter. This is why we need a block feature. Ignore simply doesn't do enough sometimes.

Lol this is kinda funny in a way! He's trolling you but thinks it's entertaining that you are gay ?!

This is NOT funny in ANY way...

Wonder what did you say before this first post shown here to enrage this guy? Still not sure how it happened. Have you already reported him, grandad?

Some people don't need a reason to be a piece of shit. That said, I haven't been here long, but I've made it a point to read hotelbeneathground's posts whenever I can. He and I had an issue a while back with another asshole that's gone and chatted about it shortly. To get to my point, hotelbeneathground speaks pointedly sometimes, but always respectfully. I don't see any reason for the attack on him. Even if he did say something rude to losteverythingtwice, nothing should make that kind of hateful, disgusting talk ok.

 

[callme]

There's a difference between being temperamental/unstable and being completely incapable of keeping basic etiquette. In the latter case you don't get to stay in any community, on or off the internet.

Well of first-hqnd experience, knowing you are unstable is .. unsettling. It's already enough to be ignored.

 

[WatermelonMel]

They latched onto that 1 subject because they had nothing else to use against you. How very sad...

This is unfortunately what most cyberbullies do... be it a profile picture, a social media account, your name, whatever; they'll use it against you when you inadvertently hurt their feelings.

 

[Makko]

This forum is extra sensitive because here people share vulnerable information about themselves and it's particularly infuriating when someone exploits this vulnerability to purposely stab you "where it hurts".

 

[littlelungs]

Holy fuck, that is infuriating, disgusting, beyond fucked up... I'm speechless. Just when I think I couldn't possibly be more horrified by humanity... what the FUCK. I don't care how much someone doesn't like someone else's posts or what they have to say; there is NO excuse for that. I've reported their post and referred the mods to this thread in the report as well.

I'm so, so, sorry. I wish there was more I could say, but I'm at a total loss with this one. Jesus Christ...

I hope you're okay... or at least, as "okay" as you can be. All my hugs to you.

 

[EdibleGasMask]

People like that who turn their pain outwards onto others like that deserve to feel like shit. People like @hotelbeneathground who have pain but decide to uplift others in the community are amazing people. Sorry about this guy man, they don't deserve acknowledgement.

 

[Midgardsorm]

It seems the stupid baby has been banned already. Good.

I would want him to hear a few things before they kick his ass off here, just to draw some of his stinky blood, but let's leave it at that.

@hotelbeneathground , I apologize deeply for this. Know that you can count on us. You are a very dear member of this community and a good friend for all of us.


Aside from that, this is a problem here, as @Makko stated, it's a place where we share our most vulnerable information. It doesn't surprise me that someone would use this information to hurt. It's only sad that this happened here.
Good thing we are covered by anonymity, but this doesn't protect us from insults from these worms. Also, sometimes we wish we could know someone here better and then this happens. I guess it's better to keep the anonymity as high as possible.

Our suffering should not be judged, much less made fun or used against us, @hotelbeneathground had to live through all a world of torture just to hear this from an little scumbag.
What a shame this world has become.

 

[A_miStake_of_NATURE]

Jesus. What a sick bastard…… For me this place always seemed safe…. I trust this place and people here. I guess something like this shows we all should be more careful here….
I'm sorry you had to encounter such asshole. Reading what that sicko had written, I still can't believe it had happened here….

 

[Bone]

reminds me of bullies in high school

 

[again_noidea]

this human needs compassion. he has lost his way. i'm sorry that you had to endure the sickness of this ill person, hopefully he finds what he needs.

I remember a time when I did something similar. I'm very thankful that I was able to change.

 

[Quiet Desperation]

What the fuck.

 

[WhatDoesTheFoxSay?]

This forum is extra sensitive because here people share vulnerable information about themselves and it's particularly infuriating when someone exploits this vulnerability to purposely stab you "where it hurts".

Well said, @Makko. Talk about adding insult to injury. @hotelbeneathground, I'm sorry were on the receiving end of such abuse. How very déclassé of him to have to resort to such a low blow.

I hope you're feeling better. You're one of the one of the most interesting people I've met—I love your sense of humour. You impress me with your extensive knowledge of various subjects and profound insight on human nature. Your presence livens up this place, which would not have been the same without you.

 

[callme]

How can somebody at this lenght not be assured of punishment, instead of rehabilitation does more good for such people. Or does them all bad.

Doing them all bad only gets worse, because it is unfair to them, they have an obvious problem but they keep doing this to people like @hotelbeneathground (hope you are taking a rest and trying to feel better grandad, come back when you're ok ). When under punishment, this makes them retaliate even more and will make them worse off.

Something makes me think we as humans can't do any better.

Unfortunately, they don't see this was only done after and because of their own way, and that's why they don't choose rehab. Here I am taking it to mean a simple act of talking to a friend to calm down, going to sermon and giving testimony (or whatever it's called) in a church even if not religious. They are hurting all over, but they don't stop. It is beyond me, as it makes me think of a person dying alone, violently, who doesn't try in their final moments to gasp for life. I can't imagkne that.

And then it makes me think if we are no better, assuming we don't get help. At least I don't, I resist. It's not always possible anyway. Are we no better and deserve to die equally? At any rate, I feel more than in a long time, dying isn't so bad and now it's time to say something nobody else says:


Dying can be beneficial just as well to the people one has hurt just as well as it can be to themself.

 

[fox_wannabe]

Ban his ass.

 

[Whale_bones]

This is bullshit, I'm sorry @hotelbeneathground . I hope you're having a good day/night now and able to do something you enjoy to take your mind off it.

 

[Snake of Eden]

Jesus christ, I never expected to witness this level of stooping low on this forum. I have no words to describe how saddening this is. I feel as if this verbal abuse was directed towards me personally. I hope this never repeats in future. We all deserve better than this. Utterly inhumane and disgraceful.

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

What an absolutely disgusting individual. How can they not feel ashamed of themselves for thinking such vile things, much less actually typing them out and imposing them on such a genuinely sweet guy like you?

Exploiting a person's vulnerabilities and deep seated traumas is about as low as one could possibly stoop. I am so sorry you had to recieve those nasty messages. I lose more faith in humanity every day.