Re. "I've had miscarriages already some awful person outed me about it."

[Zeus35]

I think there's been some misunderstanding about my comment. I'd just like to confirm Cathy Ames wasn't the person I was talking about. I was actually talking about someone in my personal life. It's why I had cut myself and I used that phrase to describe them and the situation to people in my personal life and tell all of you what they'd done. Cathy Ames has always been supportive and kind towards me and has done nothing but be very helpful. What he/she said was very correct about me needing to do x, y and z because of previous miscarriages. I definitely didn't feel outed on this site about my miscarriages because if anyone knows my previous posts, they'll know I have been speaking about the miscarriages for a while. There fore there was nothing to "out" as such. As it wasn't a secret. Someone in my personal life not only outed my pregnancy but the miscarriesg to. Again some people knew about the miscarriages but it was more the pregnancy being outed that I was upset about. Hence why in previous posts I reference being betrayed. If anyone wants to let admin know because I think Cathy might have been reported by members without the situation being clear that I wasn't actually talking about Cathy. Cathy and I get along very well and I value his/her opinions, support and advice x

 

[Cathy Ames]

I sent an apology to Zeus because I felt I had let this information slip in one of my replies to her whilst trying to be helpful. In future, I'll strive to be more careful to reply privately when I am recalling prior information that may have been deleted in the mean time. Zeus understandably has privacy concerns.

[When my memory is operating correctly, it is like unto a curse sometimes.]

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I was going to write to you about this Cathy, because it's a very sensitive topic. I'm glad this is all sorted now :)