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Crematoryy

Crematoryy

Wandering endlessly
Feb 12, 2025
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This has been scientifically proven and attested to through sociological experiments. Everything always comes down to your image. Whether virtually or in person, it's your biophysiological traits that determine if you're a desirable or undesirable person. Beautiful people always receive attention for free; but if you identify with them, ugly people don't get a single notification on their phones.

I posted a photo of myself with modifications on dating apps and was bombarded with messages of interest. Appearance is all that matters in deciding whether you'll be left alone or loved. Fuck this despicable humanity.
 
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Gustav Hartmann

Gustav Hartmann

Enlightened
Aug 28, 2021
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This is how evolution works, if it were different we would not exist.
 
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hopelessgirl

hopelessgirl

Mage
Oct 12, 2021
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This has been scientifically proven and attested to through sociological experiments. Everything always comes down to your image. Whether virtually or in person, it's your biophysiological traits that determine if you're a desirable or undesirable person. Beautiful people always receive attention for free; but if you identify with them, ugly people don't get a single notification on their phones.

I posted a photo of myself with modifications on dating apps and was bombarded with messages of interest. Appearance is all that matters in deciding whether you'll be left alone or loved. Fuck this despicable humanity.
I think "love" for the person or the actions of the person also do matter though. At least for me.
 
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astr4

astr4

memento mori
Mar 27, 2019
692
dating apps are pretty much just for shallow people to form connections. you won't find anything authentic on there in my experience. you might find some people on there who genuinely are looking for a connection but yeah idk. apps aren't the place to meet people. i think hobbies are best for that.
 
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NormallyNeurotic

NormallyNeurotic

Everything is going to be okay â‹… he/him
Nov 21, 2024
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I mean, I've caught feelings for people online before even seeing their face, and it persisted after seeing their face whether they were conventionally attractive or not. I am demisexual, though, so maybe try dating a demisexual person 😭
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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Link to the study would be nice.

For the record, the only person to give me an orgasm was overweight and balding.
 
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dontletthembribeyou

autistic girlfailure
Mar 4, 2025
148
I wish it were just about sex. For women you can't even make friends or get a decent career if you're ugly enough
 
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kuroshimi

kuroshimi

If you're not remembered, then you never existed.
Dec 1, 2025
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There is a proverb that says we judge people first by their appearance, assuming that attractive people are smarter than others. But what is remebered is whether the people are thoughtful or interrsting to talk with.
 

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