People don't care

[Sadness20]

Even if you're so suicidal you can't stop crying, no one will be there for you. You'll always be all alone. People are disgusting.They won't do you a favor even if it would just be something to show you that you aren't completely alone. But you are. You are. Completely. Alone. Maybe its time to go soon.

 

[rationaltake]

I understand. That's all I can say.

 

[Julgran]

We are here for you in this difficult time

It's true, though, that some people only pretend to listen to one's problems, and then they go about their day without reflecting on it again.

 

[Sadness20]

We are here for you in this difficult time

It's true, though, that some people only pretend to listen to one's problems, and then they go about their day without reflecting on it again.

I'm so done. So so done.

 

[FuneralCry]

It is true that people do not care. After all, all people are selfish, everything they do is to benefit themselves in some way. People only care about what directly affects them.

 

[Sadness20]

It is true that people do not care. After all, all people are selfish, everything they do is to benefit themselves in some way. People only care about what directly affects them.

So true, I'm so sick of this selfishness

 

[cambrai33]

It is true that people do not care. After all, all people are selfish, everything they do is to benefit themselves in some way. People only care about what directly affects them.

Sorry, I know things are shit for you constantly but people do care even when there is no benefit to them but that's just my opinion and I know you feel this way for you're own reasons

 

[Myl]

I understand this very well myself having dealt with it.
Ultimately ourselves are the only person we can rely on. Even people who try to "help" you will have external motives most of the time.

 

[LittleBlackCat]

I totally understand. In fact, people have proven themselves to care even less since I told them I'm suicidal. I feel completely let down.

So true, I'm so sick of this selfishness

You can pm me if you like.

 

[motel rooms]

It is true that people do not care. After all, all people are selfish, everything they do is to benefit themselves in some way. People only care about what directly affects them.

But you're a human being & you care. If you didn't care, you wouldn't always do your best to comfort other SS members.

 

[Callie Arcale]

The real tragedy is that even those who care cannot help.

 

[ket]

it's very frustrating too because some people really do care a lot (whether or not it gets through is another thing entirely), but other people are just entirely unsympathetic or impatient that you're not better already.

 

[cambrai33]

Yes most definitely, it's a point of despair for me

 

[down for the count]

Even if you're so suicidal you can't stop crying, no one will be there for you. You'll always be all alone. People are disgusting.They won't do you a favor even if it would just be something to show you that you aren't completely alone. But you are. You are. Completely. Alone. Maybe its time to go soon.

Not only will people not help you they will go out of their way to punish you. It is quite remarkable how little they care for other people. Then again I live in a subdivision of entitled rich people.

 

[Zotz101]

The real tragedy is that even those who care cannot help.

This is probably the most profound thing I've read in a while.

But seriously, I think people care. I care about my friends and their lives. I bet there is at least one person in the world you care for. Understand that people do care about you but we are selfish creatures. We can't inhabit the minds of others - only ourselves. That creates a dissonance between the thoughts and feelings of other people and our own self. It's fucking scary to me too, though. Yet, we can't truly understand anyone but ourself. And sometimes even that fails.

I would say though that most suicidal people I have encountered in life (like I would say myself too) care more about other people than most. I think it's because we want to shield them from what we feel. I'd die a gruesome, painful, death for my friends, friends that I doubt even enjoy my company, to never experience the self-hatred that I feel. That's the beauty of this community - likeminded people to express ourselves with in a world that simply doesn't understand people like us. The possibility to support and be supported by people who at the very least share a similar experience to you.

 

[lonerclown666]

They dont people are selfish you die and they will not care

 

[Crazy4u]

I started to find comfort in that. Don't care? perfect for me. Now I can go and die in peace. I don't know what's happening to me. I'm losing my mind

 

[Charaltontin]

It's different for everyone. My parents and maybe friends will probably be sad but in reality I'm the selfish one for leaving..and maybe so are them for wanting me to stay somewhere i don't wanna be sometimes i truly wish they didn't care they honestly don't show it. It only up to when you tell them the. Suddenly your the most important thing then till it blows over and it's back to just being there.

 

[Sadness20]

This is probably the most profound thing I've read in a while.

But seriously, I think people care. I care about my friends and their lives. I bet there is at least one person in the world you care for. Understand that people do care about you but we are selfish creatures. We can't inhabit the minds of others - only ourselves. That creates a dissonance between the thoughts and feelings of other people and our own self. It's fucking scary to me too, though. Yet, we can't truly understand anyone but ourself. And sometimes even that fails.

I would say though that most suicidal people I have encountered in life (like I would say myself too) care more about other people than most. I think it's because we want to shield them from what we feel. I'd die a gruesome, painful, death for my friends, friends that I doubt even enjoy my company, to never experience the self-hatred that I feel. That's the beauty of this community - likeminded people to express ourselves with in a world that simply doesn't understand people like us. The possibility to support and be supported by people who at the very least share a similar experience to you.

I love this community, I just wished we'd have something different in common. And we'd all be okay with our lives