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Don'tknow123

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Sep 21, 2020
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I see a lot of people telling people not to do certain methods due to them being painful, taking a long time etc.. Why does it matter? If you really want to die you'll do whatever it takes.
 
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ReadyForIt

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Jun 10, 2021
42
It matters because it's extremely difficult for many to overcome the fear of pain associated with dying/CTB. "Getting over" that fear and SI is a unique process to each individual, and what may help some people do this may not work for others. Hence why you see so much discussion about these things.
 
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Anonymous_A

Arcanist
Oct 4, 2020
411
Most of the time people don't actually do it, the more painful deaths.
Heck a lot of people don't actually go through with suicide at all

And if they do, I doubt they've come on a forum talking about it
 
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ReadyForIt

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Jun 10, 2021
42
Most of the time people don't actually do it, the more painful deaths.
Heck a lot of people don't actually go through with suicide at all

And if they do, I doubt they've come on a forum talking about it
That's a pretty cynical take on things….
 
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shio

Member
Jun 11, 2021
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This really isn't true to be honest, I've wanted to die for so long but I'm extremely afraid of the pain. I wish that it was like this but it just isn't. It takes a lot of strength to actually bring yourself to commit suicide in the first place, I mean It's extremely scary thinking about what happens after death for some people, so the fear of pain on top of that just adds onto your issue.
 
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Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
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I see a lot of people telling people not to do certain methods due to them being painful, taking a long time etc.. Why does it matter? If you really want to die you'll do whatever it takes.
You're free to ignore those who warn others that certain methods are extremely painful & take a very long time. Do whatever you want to yourself, it's your life/death
 
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lofticries

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Feb 27, 2021
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because pain and certain stressful situations might botch their attempt resulting in an even worse predicament.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I think if the method is painful, it is harder to overcome the survival instinct, making the method harder to do. I think often, the more peaceful the method the more calmer one is likely to feel about doing it. Naturally as humans we generally want to avoid pain.
 

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