One good memory to take to the grave

[Lone Wanderer]

What's one good memory you would like to take to your grave and live in for all eternity?

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't have any. I don't want to live at all, I just want to cease to exist. I have never wanted to be alive and I have never had a positive experience of life. Nothingness is ideal to me.

 

[Hope:-)]

I was thinking of this just today. Right before my life got messed up for many years by psychiatric medication, I remember hanging out with my friends sipping a beer and loving life. I was thinking of that today because I was so happy then and had no idea what was right around the corner. Hopefully I get to be young again in the next life and can make new memories. Who knows :-)

 

[betternever2havbeen]

Probably a Christmas as a kid. Or Summer holidays I used to be really truly happy to be off school I used to dance around the house lol. That or sitting out in the garden with my parents and our dogs just reading a book under the apple tree. No worries and no idea how life would turn out...I wish so bad i could go back to those times.

 

[Life_and_Death]

Lunch at school with my ex-SO. He had this video of a game. We spent days cuddled together, forgetting the world.
I wonder if he feels the same....

 

[Dried_Ink]

One memory I'll always treasure is the time I saw Hope Sandoval perform live.

 

[Lone Wanderer]

Lunch at school with my ex-SO. He had this video of a game. We spent days cuddled together, forgetting the world.
I wonder if he feels the same....

Don't wonder, ask.

 

[Un-]

I'm with @FuneralCry. I have none. It's funny, isn't it? The same life that tortures me every single day, to the point where a fourteen year old boy tried to commit suicide twice, is the same life that people enjoy.

I did have enjoyable moments in my life.. Times spent with my exs.. But that makes me more sad, because.. In hindsight, there's this dark, looming sadness that's gonna fucking wash over the Me in that memory. I don't know how anyone can think longingly of that.. I guess I lack the mental requisites to qualify as a human being.

 

[Lone Wanderer]

I'm with @FuneralCry. I have none. It's funny, isn't it? The same life that tortures me every single day, to the point where a fourteen year old boy tried to commit suicide twice, is the same life that people enjoy.

I did have enjoyable moments in my life.. Times spent with my exs.. But that makes me more sad, because.. In hindsight, there's this dark, looming sadness that's gonna fucking wash over the Me in that memory. I don't know how anyone can think longingly of that.. I guess I lack the mental requisites to qualify as a human being.

What qualifies us as humans is the mistakes we make in life.

 

[Life_and_Death]

Don't wonder, ask.

I cant. He's not talking to me. I was blocked over a month ago

 

[locked*n*loaded]

I guess childhood memories of holidays with the family. Worries were few and things were much more simple. Things were more laid-back then.

 

[Hell-On-Earth]

Just being a kid really. Having my friends come over and play on the PS2 and playing Lego Star Wars with my brother. My dogs I had as a child. I never really believed it when adults told me that would be the best period of my life, but in the end they were right.

 

[outrider567]

Got countless good memories both as a child and as an adult, a lucky life(with the exception of 4 years of boarding school in Princeton, the high schoolyears)--but the best memories were with Patti, memories that were a great blessing while she was here, but are now a magnifying and relentless curse, and why I must CTB

 

[Ligottian]

The first eight years of my life.

 

[Ash’Girl]

There is this perfect moment, being with my love, watching the sun go down in an idyllic setting, his arms around me, and for that moment nothing else mattered. Contentment. Hope. Peace. Home.

I know it sounds very cheesy and Hallmark. But that is what I would choose to feel, experience, visualise as I depart.

 

[Julgran]

What's one good memory you would like to take to your grave and live in for all eternity?

Every year until I was 7 years old was great. Then, I got the news that my best friend and his family would move abroad, so we wouldn't be be able to see each other. Then, after, that, my own family, including me, moved across town when I was 7 years old, so I lot contact with all my friends. Then, life moved on without me - I was just a shell of my former self.

 

[Anonymous1997ES]

Only one, huh... I guess I could choose one of these three:
1. Christmas holidays with my family and my uncle's family.

2. Hanging out with the three closest friends I've ever had (now I'm still close only with two, working to repair the bond with the third one).

3. My high school graduation party... Right before I went to college and everything started to decline...