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DisillusionedDruid

DisillusionedDruid

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Dec 7, 2022
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Hey everyone,

I discovered an interesting thing that may help some people on here. It appears to be a very useful video that helps to identify and process what most of us likely have here - a thing called 'Toxic Shame'.

This video is a lovely psychologist, who seems to have good levels of compassion, and has from her own experience, managed to get out of this Shame bound existence and is thriving.

As we are all down and outs, for me personally, as a poker player and gambler, going 'all in' when I have nothing left to give or try, seems like this might be worth watching. I'm currently working on this myself. I guess I still have some fight left in me yet. I can try help a but, but as I say, I'm currently working through this myself too.

Without any further ado, here's the clip:



Good luck everyone. Blessings to you all

Druid
 
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ben_

I'm Ben.
Oct 31, 2023
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This blew me away. It's like I'm and she's describing me with her every single word. Thank you for sharing this.
 
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Regen

I stay in my power
Aug 20, 2020
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Sadly my English is too bad to understand exactly what she said. But yes, shame is such a big thing.... Thank you for sharing!!
 
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DisillusionedDruid

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This blew me away. It's like I'm and she's describing me with her every single word. Thank you for sharing this.
My esteemed pleasure. I stumbled across it and feel it would help people here. I recommend checking out her videos. Well worth your time. Hope it helps
Sadly my English is too bad to understand exactly what she said. But yes, shame is such a big thing.... Thank you for sharing!!
I'm sorry it's hard to understand. Try putting CC (captions) on in your native language. You're welcome. I hope it can help
 
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Thank you for this, this was so illuminating!
 

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