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DiscussionMulti-choice poll: "good person"
Thread starterU. A.
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I feel like I can never be a good person to everyone, some people will always be against me no matter what. I have found that the only way to exist is to put on a different mask for each cultural group. So that I can lie to everybody, and everyone can like me.
I think I have at least an average amount of compassion and altruism and goodwill and all that fluffy stuff, but I'm not sure that I'm good at *being* a person. I want other people to do well and be well, but I'm socially awkward and aloof and non-confrontational to a fault where I avoid confrontation even when it's to the other party's betterment.
In my head I really want to be a good person and not be like abusers, bad people who contributed to my poor mental health but same poor mental health is making me into kind of a bitter, cold, maybe distant person and meds sometimes make me aggressive to my only family so definitely I am a bad person. Now I know someone can say just don't do [insert thing] but I have no grasp over how I behave. I hurt people I care about and I am so immensely sorry about that...
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