Looking for a friend

[Lala94]

Looking for someone to spend my time with. I know this isn't a dating site but I'd like to find someone who understands that life can be hard and hurt and everything in between and maybe help someone as they help me. I like brown skin. I love muslims and arabic people. Not looking for dating just really someone who will make my lonely time not so lonely.

 

[Toenditall]

where abouts you from?

 

[Lala94]

Hellloooo,I'm from around the Midsouth:) and yourself?!

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

Hah! I'm watching this thread!
I was pondering the idea myself, but haven't gathered the courage to post something like this first.

 

[Lala94]

Hah! I'm watching this thread!
I was pondering the idea myself, but haven't gathered the courage to post something like this first.

What better way to find someone like you than the place you're both at for a reason you feel alone?:)

 

[Rex2019]

Just imagine if you found a friend here and you hit it off. And later you both get well and decide to live and get married.

Everytime someone asks," so how did you two meet?" It will be hilarious.

"Well...we met online"

"Oh,like a dating website? "

"Yeah.. something like that..." looking uncomfortable

Which one?! All the ones I use are crap. I only meet dirtbags. What's the one you guys used? "

"Umm..... Sanctioned suicide.."

awkward silence

Hahahaha

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

Just imagine if you found a friend here and you hit it off. And later you both get well and decide to live and get married.

Everytime someone asks," so how did you two meet?" It will be hilarious.

"Well...we met online"

"Oh,like a dating website? "

"Yeah.. something like that..." looking uncomfortable

Which one?! All the ones I use are crap. I only meet dirtbags. What's the one you guys used? "

"Umm..... Sanctioned suicide.."

awkward silence

Hahahaha

Hah!
Though, we, as a whole community, have a better chance hitting off with somebody from here than, say, tinder or okcupid or some shit like that.
We've been through some shit most people on these sites cannot understand.

 

[anuglymale]

@Lala94
What is midsouth? Part of the US

 

[chrijo]

One thing is clear ... on this page you can find the best characters in the world.

A destroyed soul belongs to another destroyed soul :-)

 

[Lala94]

Just imagine if you found a friend here and you hit it off. And later you both get well and decide to live and get married.

Everytime someone asks," so how did you two meet?" It will be hilarious.

"Well...we met online"

"Oh,like a dating website? "

"Yeah.. something like that..." looking uncomfortable

Which one?! All the ones I use are crap. I only meet dirtbags. What's the one you guys used? "

"Umm..... Sanctioned suicide.."

awkward silence

Hahahaha

HAHAHAHAHA I know I know but like wouldn't it be great for two lonely people so lonely they wanna die to find solitude in each other?! I WOULD LOVE THAT!
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@Lala94
What is midsouth? Part of the US

Arkansas!

 

[santroski]

hey lala94 eu sou o sh * poet pode me chamar em [email protected]
a entao eu sou do brazil e vejo o site todo traduzido eu vim para ca para prourar amigos e para ter com quem conversar e pa

 

[iamthezero]

Hellloooo,I'm from around the Midsouth:) and yourself?!

R Kansas

 

[sunny.sativa]

We've been through some shit most people on these sites cannot understand.

I work at Starbucks. I went to work wearing a clean apron and a big ass smile, two days after attempting to hang myself in my closet.

Did you know your local barista tried to fucking die the other day?
You don't know shit about others and they don't know shit about you.

Don't assume anything. Ever.

Peace xx

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

I work at Starbucks. I went to work wearing a clean apron and a big ass smile, two days after attempting to hang myself in my closet.

Did you know your local barista tried to fucking die the other day?
You don't know shit about others and they don't know shit about you.

Don't assume anything. Ever.

Peace xx

As I said - there's a better chance of me getting a girlfriend here than on tinder or OkCupid. We can bond over the shit we went through and try to maybe support each other somehow. I'm pretty doubtful you'd have that kind of intimate information from tinder. On tinder we'd try to bond with alcohol or something and fish for any information about each other.

Edit: I am not assuming anything. In fact, on dating sites I have a lesser amount of things to assume. Here I know for a fact that if I were to try to get a real life friend here, we'd have at least one common denominator.
Also, to clarify, I don't see SS as a dating platform.

 

[Halo13]

As I said - there's a better chance of me getting a girlfriend here than on tinder or OkCupid. We can bond over the shit we went through and try to maybe support each other somehow. I'm pretty doubtful you'd have that kind of intimate information from tinder. On tinder we'd try to bond with alcohol or something.

Ah, sweet looney bin romance. Nothing quite like it :)

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

Ah, sweet looney bin romance. Nothing quite like it :)

Hey, it's the best kind!

 

[Halo13]

Hey, it's the best kind!

Actually it can be. I was just about to add a story about that.

I met a suicidal guy in one of the psych wards who confessed he'd been in love with his best girlfriend for years. She was also like us - they both were. Right on the brink of ctb. When he was released, he called me and told me he planned to go for her as a last chance effort before killing himself. Turned out, they both were trying to quit cutting and locked themselves up in his apartment for a few weeks, even unplugged the phone.

They were married in under a year and had a son. Still married last I knew. They got tattoos of each other's names over their scars :)

 

[spanishguy22]

Actually it can be. I was just about to add a story about that.

I met a suicidal guy in one of the psych wards who confessed he'd been in love with his best girlfriend for years. She was also like us - they both were. Right on the brink of ctb. When he was released, he called me and told me he planned to go for her as a last chance effort before killing himself. Turned out, they both were trying to quit cutting and locked themselves up in his apartment for a few weeks, even unplugged the phone.

They were married in under a year and had a son. Still married last I knew. They got tattoos of each other's names over their scars :)

Poor son tbh.

 

[Halo13]

Poor son tbh.

Not at all. They were like different people after they got together. Very much in love and happy. Point being, for some that is all it takes.

 

[spanishguy22]

Not at all. They were like different people after they got together. Very much in love and happy. Point being, for some that is all it takes.

Check back in a year
Mental illness prevails at the end

 

[Halo13]

Check back in a year
Mental illness prevails at the end

This was 9 years ago.

 

[sunny.sativa]

As I said - there's a better chance of me getting a girlfriend here than on tinder or OkCupid. We can bond over the shit we went through and try to maybe support each other somehow. I'm pretty doubtful you'd have that kind of intimate information from tinder. On tinder we'd try to bond with alcohol or something and fish for any information about each other.

Edit: I am not assuming anything. In fact, on dating sites I have a lesser amount of things to assume. Here I know for a fact that if I were to try to get a real life friend here, we'd have at least one common denominator.
Also, to clarify, I don't see SS as a dating platform.

Makes sense. I didn't mean for it to sound snappy, I apologize. I just meant that any one of these people could be on Tinder or .. Farmers Only idk (I've a passionate aversion to online dating)

I personally don't feel like this is something I'd wanna know first about someone I'm trying to date, and this isn't something I'd want them to know first about me. Or even second. Probably not even years down the line, but that's not a choice.

"Hey, I'm suicidal."
"Oh, sweet. That's hot. Me too."

I wanna bond over sly romance and unique tastes in music, or the fact that we both surf or love art galleries. Something good. Not this bullshit.
xx

 

[TiredHorse]

Actually it can be. I was just about to add a story about that.

I met a suicidal guy in one of the psych wards who confessed he'd been in love with his best girlfriend for years. She was also like us - they both were. Right on the brink of ctb. When he was released, he called me and told me he planned to go for her as a last chance effort before killing himself. Turned out, they both were trying to quit cutting and locked themselves up in his apartment for a few weeks, even unplugged the phone.

They were married in under a year and had a son. Still married last I knew. They got tattoos of each other's names over their scars :)

That story just made my day. Thank you.

 

[Halo13]

That story just made my day. Thank you.

Good. You're welcome.

 

[Alchemist]

Looking for someone to spend my time with. I know this isn't a dating site but I'd like to find someone who understands that life can be hard and hurt and everything in between and maybe help someone as they help me. I like brown skin. I love muslims and arabic people. Not looking for dating just really someone who will make my lonely time not so lonely.

I think everyone here knows that pain in some way or another. I'm always available for you or anyone who needs someone to listen or talk.

 

[nirvana]

I can totally relate to that desire of having somebody Kind to talk to and support each other…. it just sucks when the Person suddenly is gone. But till that date it is a huge relief to have somebody to Count on and a shoulder to lie on. Love and friendship really do heal some wounds… i recently have been touched by seeing a very sweet couple… both were very Young - the guy had no more arms and the Girl also seemed to be a bit disabled, but there was such an immense love between them.. it seemed like they found each other and shared some Kind of unconditional love.

 

[Pupuce]

Guys, i came here to stop feeling, not the opposite please stop. I might stop considering human beings as selfish good-for-nothing.

And as I see people from america, i feel compelled to propose myself in France for some variety in places. I'd be ok with getting a drink and discussing a bit. Don't get your hopes too high i may not be around for long.