Long distance

[wutever]

I'm in a long distance relationship. Soon it will be harder to see each other. It may end. I can feel myself bottoming out. I've loved him for six years.

Um, anyway I feel this song.

 

[FuneralCry]

I can imagine that it must be really hard being in a long distance relationship. When things end it can often be painful, but that is what happens in life, everything must end someday. I do hope that things work out. I wish you the best in whatever happens.

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]

I have had long distance relationships and it really isn't easy at all. It all depends on the person, the relationship, etc. But it only works if it's temporary, that is, if there are plans for you to get together one day, otherwise it doesn't work.

 

[wutever]

Eventually, yes.

Also, I love this community! I unfortunately (fortunately) can't ctb, because I have kiddos. I can't hurt them. I've been a lurker for years, and it's just nice to feel understood, and not like a freak. I have a couple medical conditions mild cerebral palsy. I just walk a little weird. I also have POTS, and post covid parosmia.

Is it still okay to be here? I love you guys.
I usually don't have the balls to post, as I feel like I'm a super cringey human being. I'm just having a really low day.

 

[CrazyMary]

Eventually, yes.

Also, I love this community! I unfortunately (fortunately) can't ctb, because I have kiddos. I can't hurt them. I've been a lurker for years, and it's just nice to feel understood, and not like a freak. I have a couple medical conditions mild cerebral palsy. I just walk a little weird. I also have POTS, and post covid parosmia.

Is it still okay to be here? I love you guys.
I usually don't have the balls to post, as I feel like I'm a super cringey human being. I'm just having a really low day.

I think it´s ok to be here as I am sure the throught of ctb has come to all of our minds. Long distance as said befor ecna work if there are plans of finally being together. Who knows this life is crazy maybe it ends now and in 5 years down the road that person moves to the same city as you and voila!

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]

Eventually, yes.

Also, I love this community! I unfortunately (fortunately) can't ctb, because I have kiddos. I can't hurt them. I've been a lurker for years, and it's just nice to feel understood, and not like a freak. I have a couple medical conditions mild cerebral palsy. I just walk a little weird. I also have POTS, and post covid parosmia.

Is it still okay to be here? I love you guys.
I usually don't have the balls to post, as I feel like I'm a super cringey human being. I'm just having a really low day.

Of course you can be here and you do well if it makes you feel good. You should also post threads more often :)

 

[Maaizr]

Is it still okay to be here? I love you guys.
I usually don't have the balls to post, as I feel like I'm a super cringey human being. I'm just having a really low day.

you have every right to be hereim sorry you're having a low day i can relate, thank you for sharing

 

[wutever]

I'm actually supposed to go see him tomorrow. It's a six hour drive. I just know we're gonna have to have that conversation, like about how we're gonna keep doing this, since we're both getting jobs again.

Also last time I saw him, when I left, I had a blow out on the interstate and fucked up my car. I had to walk a mile down the interstate, and call my dad from a truck stop in the middle of January, so I'm nervous about the drive.

"Cmon, car! I wanna die, but I can't and not like this."


Im gonna try to just think about getting drunk in his apartment, and petting his dog.

 

[CommitSudoku]

Is it still okay to be here? I love you guys.
I usually don't have the balls to post, as I feel like I'm a super cringey human being. I'm just having a really low day.

It's definitely okay for you to be here and feel free to post more if you want to or it helps at all. This community is nothing without it's members. I don't think you're cringey at all. I've only been able to development relationships online so I can relate to long-distance and the stress it can bring. If you can actually visit him I'd say to just see how it goes, and even if hard it probably is important to have the tough conversations. Perhaps something will come from it and change things.

Best wishes on the drive there, be sure to pack water and food and any other supplies should anything happen to your car again. I hope that won't be the case. Please stay safe.