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morose soul

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Oct 17, 2021
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The fact that no woman is sexually and romantically attracted to me constantly makes me feel less of a man and this is one of the reasons why I want to kill myself because I am very tired of being perpetually single, sexless and lonely. No one understands how much not having a girlfriend makes me feel inadequate and suicidal as a man since life has always been this way for me. I just want to belong like other romantically partnered people.
 
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Snake of Eden

Snake of Eden

ā€œYe shall be as gods..šŸŽ šŸā€
Jun 22, 2021
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I am in the same situation as you except Im homosexual. It is really a terrible existence to wake up and go to sleep with no one to kiss, hug, talk to or have sex with. I hope your situation can get better in that regard. As for me it will never will be which is a terrible fate to resign to
 
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toforigivelife

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Jul 5, 2021
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That kind of loneliness can be fatal.

Loving and being loved is a human need and love is the only thing that gives life meaning.

I'm so sorry for all of the times you've been hurt. The dating scene must've been hell for you.

You can check out a dating site called Single and Shy.

It's an international site that serves the U.S. and a lot of countries.

https://www.singleandshy.com/

You're on SS so I'm guessing that depression is an issue. Have you thought of joining a depression support group?

You may meet someone who you have something in common with and who understands where you're coming from as far as not being able to fit in with the general dating population.

You can try volunteering at a place that provides an outlet for those who deal with depression or other mental health issues.

I'm not recommending that you volunteer at a psychiatric hospital but maybe something like a recovery group, a group that goes out and enjoys social activities.

Like I said you might find understanding or commonality in a place where there are people who understand you and who can relate to how your emotional state hinders you socially.

I wish you the best.
 
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Red

Warlock
Apr 10, 2019
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I'm sorry you feel this way, it's so horrible to feel lonely, unloved and unattractive.

Many people have felt the same but then just around the corner they find the love of their life - it happens all the time. Don't give up hope! Sometimes it takes a bit of work; tweaking little personality flaws, taking care of your body, but mostly just to relax and learning to love yourself…

It's a goddamn cliche but it's a cliche for a reason lol there's someone for everyone out there, I really believe this :heart:
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I know that loneliness can be painful for many people. I'm sorry you are suffering. Life is just so unfair. I hope you find peace.
 

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