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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,362
Maybe you're right but then, I have seen people here so desperate to find a partner. Who were so sure that a partner would fix all their troubles and (sadly,) they still felt the same after finding someone. Even though they were equally sure they would never find someone and put just as much value on it. It's not to say it's impossible it would turn everything around for you but, it simply isn't always the case.

You're also assuming that you will be good for one another. When, I think that also isn't always the case- sadly.

That said- I hope you do get your wish.
 
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deadofdespair

deadofdespair

Where's my arc?
Apr 20, 2026
5
Life is pointless
 
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happysunnydayy

happysunnydayy

lookin for friends:)
Mar 18, 2025
125
People with partners also ctb so I don't think it's all that good
 
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devils~advocate

Specialist
Feb 29, 2024
300
My suggestion is to only work on yourself. Do things that make you better, whatever that might be.....learning new things, career, hobbies, friendships, etc. Maybe having a deeper relationship with family as well. Doing things with them and friends. NO romantic relationship is worth centering your life around.

Ive been the simp in various relationships.....its humiliating seeing myself doing what I did years afterwards.
Watch the hoe-math channel on YT....explains a lot of whats going on in current culture.
 
SoverignDreamer97

SoverignDreamer97

I am never alone.
Mar 29, 2026
101
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, yet lose his own soul? You can't please everyone, you know. (Suncha/Matthew 8:36)

 
EndThatSuffer

EndThatSuffer

Born to be alone 💔
Apr 21, 2026
12
I agree so much.....i'm in same situation, feel so alone, i hope to ctb soon
 
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tunnelV

tunnelV

Misanthrope is my religion
Oct 19, 2023
140
Not gonna say i relate as an attractive woman but from my experience being in relationships with men made me feel MORE CTB. A lot of replies are telling you things that are enjoyable but to THEM and i agree community service sounds like a drag. Pets aren't filling that gap probably because you've never had a relationship? Some women will destroy your life and mental health further. Thats also a possibility. Indeed dating apps, social media and p0rn have causes a new normal socially its gross and abnormal. Its just another reason i dislike people. I thought it was bad before but at least people still acted like basic humans.
 
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violetforever

violetforever

Elementalist
Dec 24, 2025
836
I don't envy any of them.
this is maybe the funniest reply that ive read on here 😭

i agree with a lot of other peoples replies but i still get ur point. why is it wrong to say nothing else is as fulfilling as a romantic relationship? theres not another closeness like that.
 

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