Resource Life Could Be Dream ❤

[LoveYoux]

Here's a radical idea, let's throw some reasons to live out here

Animals are cute x
Nature can be pretty x
Stars exist x
Netflixx
We've all had fun before, surely there's some more to be had x

 

[Chinaski]

@mods

 

[Oblivion Access]

@mods

I don't really get it? Yes, the thread is might appear odd, but upon a cursory glance, OP seems sincere? Or is it just a bit about "pro-lifers"? Something I'm missing here?

 

[freedompass]

I'm sure she means no harm, I replied to her thread from a psych ward earlier. Maybe this is your dark humour Chinaski lol.

 

[LoveYoux]

Meant no harm just trying to help others, this is the recovery section x

 

[whatevs]

Only the last bullet point carries some weight.

 

[FuneralCry]

Meant no harm just trying to help others, this is the recovery section x

Just ignore the trolls on here. Unfortunately sometimes there are people like that on here. There is nothing wrong with your thread and it is a good idea for the recovery section. You are doing great trying to help people. I hope that you are able to enjoy the things you listed.

 

[Marine]

Here's a radical idea, let's throw some reasons to live out here

Animals are cute x
Nature can be pretty x
Stars exist x
Netflixx
We've all had fun before, surely there's some more to be had x

Can you find me a believeable reason why being existentially obliterated by everyone I've ever been attracted to or loved is going to end and I'll somehow find mutual love ? *serious ask*

 

[Chinaski]

Just ignore the trolls on here. Unfortunately sometimes there are people like that on here. There is nothing wrong with your thread and it is a good idea for the recovery section. You are doing great trying to help people. I hope that you are able to enjoy the things you listed.

You were consistently arguing that anyone seeing any value in being alive was delusional up until a week ago and regularly make the argument for banning anything lighthearted from this website as you consider it inappropriate, glad to see you've reviewed this position in light of my single post in this thread.

 

[LoveYoux]

Can you find me a believable reason why being existentially obliterated by everyone I've ever been attracted to or loved is going to end and I'll somehow find mutual love ? View attachment 93558View attachment 93559 *serious ask*

Existentially obliterated.
I like that x

Can't lie, no, I can't, I don't know

But, I think you (like me) are a naturally vulnerable and slightly needy person, you like intimacy and meaningful relationships, value honesty and just want to be happy

When it comes to relationships, exercise caution, no rush. And learn to be a little selfish, let them come to you, don't keep going to them x

You were consistently arguing that anyone seeing any value in being alive was delusional up until a week ago and regularly make the argument for banning anything lighthearted from this website as you consider it inappropriate, glad to see you've reviewed this position in light of my single post in this thread.

Can I request that you leave the recovery section please, your demeanour is not appropriate.

 

[Chinaski]

Can I request that you leave the recovery section please, your demeanour is not appropriate.

Seriously, this is absolutely far more inappropriate, l have nothing personal against you but you can stick that pious crap where the sun doesn't shine.

 

[FuneralCry]

You were consistently arguing that anyone seeing any value in being alive was delusional up until a week ago and regularly make the argument for banning anything lighthearted from this website as you consider it inappropriate, glad to see you've reviewed this position in light of my single post in this thread.

This is an innocent, harmless thread started by a new kind member and it is disrespectful to troll. Those kind of troll posts just make people feel unwelcome and it is just nonsense. The OP has said themselves that you were not being appropriate so maybe just leave their thread alone next time.

I'm sorry about this OP. Some people on here are just so awful. Unfortunately I have had many bad experiences on this website. And so what if I want this forum to be free of trolls. It is a place for suffering people to vent after all.

 

[LoveYoux]

I'm sorry about this OP. Some people on here are just so awful. Unfortunately I have had many bad experiences on this website. And so what if I want this forum to be free of trolls. It is a place for suffering people to vent after all.

No it's absolutely fine, we've all got the rights to speak our own views, but thank you for your sincerity
@Chinaski I've PM'd you x

 

[RainAndSadness]

Back to topic.

 

[Niko66]

Can't say I have reasons to keep going truly in the sense that I don't feel them much at this point in depression, but they are tiny "beacons of light" that one might cling to.

Personal ones:
Experiencing works of art that speak to me and evoke emotion. I find the effort and talent put into beautiful creations one of the saving graces of humanity as a whole.

The attempt at self realization. To see what one can do despite the hardships.

Hope for a chance for experiencing love, comfort and safety with people whom you might connect in such a way.

Waiting out for scientific, social and universal changes that might improve our quality of life.

One that I see as somewhat meaningful but doesn't necessarily do much for me is making the world at least a little better, "giving your two cents". But I am too resentful of my life experiences for really wanting that.

 

[Lost Magic]

Well Edgar Allan Poe said something along the lines of:
O God! can I not save
One from the pitiless wave?
Is all that we see or seem
But a dream within a dream?

 

[Marine]

Existentially obliterated.
I like that x

Can't lie, no, I can't, I don't know

But, I think you (like me) are a naturally vulnerable and slightly needy person, you like intimacy and meaningful relationships, value honesty and just want to be happy

When it comes to relationships, exercise caution, no rush. And learn to be a little selfish, let them come to you, don't keep going to them x

Can I request that you leave the recovery section please, your demeanour is not appropriate.

Thanks for your answer.

I have normal needs, they just so happen to be unmet and I can't change that, neither can I change the fact that I'm dying as a result of vitals needs being unmet, so I can't just wait aimlessly until someone eventually comes as nobody comes and my death is too close. Though I think I understand what you mean but it's not the issue in my situation, the curse is the issue. That can't be explained by my behaviour or attitude whatsoever, it lies somewhere else.

The worst part is I can't even better myself, the agony prevents it no matter what. Not that I shouldn't be eligible to love right now (I don't know but that's what people say) but I want to be ok with myself and this whole situation makes it impossible...

 

[Lost in a Dream]

I don't mind coming up with reasons for other people to live, if they're actually beneficial to them. This might already be covered in the last one on your list, but I would add Marijuana to it.

For the people who are able to benefit from using it, it certainly does give them a reason to stick around. This is somewhat true for me, I think, since I don't usually feel suicidal when I'm high.

 

[LoveYoux]

Thanks for your answer.

I have normal needs, they just so happen to be unmet and I can't change that, neither can I change the fact that I'm dying as a result of vitals needs being unmet, so I can't just wait aimlessly until someone eventually comes as nobody comes and my death is too close. Though I think I understand what you mean but it's not the issue in my situation, the curse is the issue. That can't be explained by my behaviour or attitude whatsoever, it lies somewhere else.

The worst part is I can't even better myself, the agony prevents it no matter what. Not that I shouldn't be eligible to love right now (I don't know but that's what people say) but I want to be ok with myself and this whole situation makes it impossible...

I think you're using the concept of a relationship as a form of a crutch, vaguely like a grass is always greener scenario
Relationships are two ways and there's no such thing as a perfect one, certainly no such thing as the one you imagine, and I'm sorry to have to say that
You got to be about you, a relationship will happen of course it will, but you've got to be in a stable mental state for it to be healthy for the pair of you, can't fix each other, can support through difficult times and you absolutely will, but you'll never 'fix' anyone but yourself, and no one can fix you but you x

 

[S like Siren]

Here's a radical idea, let's throw some reasons to live out here

Animals are cute x
Nature can be pretty x
Stars exist x
Netflixx
We've all had fun before, surely there's some more to be had x

Good food is delicious x
the sound of the sea waves is so relaxing and enjoyable x

Btw i love your profile pic,it's so beautiful:)

 

[freedompass]

I don't mind coming up with reasons for other people to live, if they're actually beneficial to them

is delicious x
the sound of the sea waves is so relaxing and enjoyable x

I'm down with yummy food, the sound of the sea and plenty other stuff but it doesn't make me wanna live as such

 

[Marine]

I think you're using the concept of a relationship as a form of a crutch, vaguely like a grass is always greener scenario
Relationships are two ways and there's no such thing as a perfect one, certainly no such thing as the one you imagine, and I'm sorry to have to say that
You got to be about you, a relationship will happen of course it will, but you've got to be in a stable mental state for it to be healthy for the pair of you, can't fix each other, can support through difficult times and you absolutely will, but you'll never 'fix' anyone but yourself, and no one can fix you but you x

I think this is toxic invalidating without knowing anything about how I see things, basic human needs, and just buying into worthless societal propaganda. I've said it before but people spreading that kind of BS need to go through the same hell if that's what it takes for them to understand how retarded what they're saying is and stop perpetuating torture and death against human nature. That's highly inappropriate.

 

[LoveYoux]

I think this is toxic invalidating without knowing anything about how I see things, basic human needs, and just buying into worthless societal propaganda. I've said it before but people spreading that kind of BS need to go through the same hell if that's what it takes for them to understand how retarded what they're saying is and stop perpetuating torture and death against human nature. That's highly inappropriate.

It's good to see you feeling a bit more in control x

 

[whatevs]

I don't mind coming up with reasons for other people to live, if they're actually beneficial to them. This might already be covered in the last one on your list, but I would add Marijuana to it.

For the people who are able to benefit from using it, it certainly does give them a reason to stick around. This is somewhat true for me, I think, since I don't usually feel suicidal when I'm high.

Interdasting. I'm thinking of trying home grown weed soon.

 

[Sibyl Vane]

I believe @Chinaski was making a sarcastic joke due to the fact that are some people here who get triggered when someone tries to mention anything positive about being alive, I don't think he was trying to be rude to you.

But I don't personally know him though, just giving my perception about it :)

 

[rationaltake]

I believe @Chinaski was making a sarcastic joke due to the fact that are some people here who get triggered when someone tries to mention anything positive about being alive, I don't think he was trying to be rude to you.

But I don't personally know him though, just giving my perception about it :)

Indeed. Last time I looked humour hadn't been banned on here.

It's good to see you feeling a bit more in control x

I presume this is also meant to be a form of humour? A sarcastic joke?

 

[Moonomyth]

I need to live at least long enough for my next attempt to ensure, if successful, it hurts the people I want it to hurt.

 

[LoveYoux]

I presume this is also meant to be a form of humour? A sarcastic joke?

No not at all x

 

[nightnightnitrite]

My baby's birthday is in a month!
New season of Peaky Blinders!
Marvel Comics anything!

 

[LoveYoux]

Aw happy birthday to bab x