'Just the little weasel' - when you overhear what people really think about you

[BluesRunTheGame]

My housemate described me thus as I passed him on the stairs talking to his gf on the phone. I had earbuds in but I guess he didn't see I took one out.

Someone please pass me the rope?

 

[Konjac]

The world would be a better place if people weren't two-faced like that. I wish people could just be honest and have the balls to say things to people's face rather than acting catty, talking behind their backs. It's pathetic.

Sending over virtual hugs, I'm sorry you have to put up with that.

 

[FuneralCry]

People can simply be so cruel. I find them disappointing and frustrating as well. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

 

[BlankUser]

Damn, sorry I wanted to react with a Hug emoji and accidently clicked a Laugh emoji. I changed that.

Sadly there are many people like that. I know how it must hurt when you're already hurting and someone makes belittling comments behind your back. I had to deal with stuff, when people are nice to your face, but later you find out how they talk behind your back. I would say ignore him. He's not worth your attention.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

He is a "weasel" for talking rubbish about you behind your back.

 

[Largeletters]

I'm sorry you had to hear this.

 

[Superdeterminist]

Holy shit, I'd be fucking mad. Sorry that you're stuck living with someone like that, wow.

 

[Makko]

He is a "weasel" for talking rubbish about you behind your back.

It looks like he was actually talking rubbish in front of his back. Quite bold.

 

[Seiba]

I don't get what's wrong with normies. Sorry you experienced that.

 

[lofticries]

That's happened to me numerous times with certain family members/classmates/acquaintances/co workers. Apparently people think I'm stuck up because I'm quiet and can't be arsed to entertain ppl (despite me being polite 24/7 when I interact with them). But tbh I'd rather have them reveal their cowardly awful ass now than later. It more so confirms my thoughts about them and people in general.

 

[Huntfish34]

Has happened to me more times than I'd care to admit. Really hate it when that happens but I eventually pick my head up or just forget about it all together. I wish you the best, life just isnt fair sometimes sadly. =\

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

Been drinking since.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

I put up with this kind of thing regularly but probably worse but when your depressed it can seem worse, it always makes me wonder if I have Asperger's because if I then loose my temper there act all hurt or upset etc then making me wonder if I'm in the wrong.

 

[Ramirez]

My housemate described me thus as I passed him on the stairs talking to his gf on the phone. I had earbuds in but I guess he didn't see I took one out.

Someone please pass me the rope?

Ugh that's rough to hear! So sorry! If it was me he would be thinking thrice before taking like that again . Don't worry about him.

it always makes me wonder if I have Asperger's because if I then loose my temper there act all hurt or upset etc then making me wonder if I'm in the wrong.

No you are right to be upset about shit like this.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

I still don't know, I did some name calling at school but lost interest in that kind of thing maybe in my early 20s? don't remember but in the UK it is the culture etc shouting at football players on the pitch etc.

 

[Garbage Person]

I'll pass the rope, but only if you promise to use it for tying him up, sticking him in your trunk, and taking him for a "little drive".

 

[Sprite_Geist]

It looks like he was actually talking rubbish in front of his back. Quite bold.

It is a figure of speech. The OP said that the person insulting him did not notice him take one of his earbuds out, so presumably he was acting "bold" because he thought that the OP would not hear.

I put up with this kind of thing regularly but probably worse but when your depressed it can seem worse, it always makes me wonder if I have Asperger's because if I then loose my temper there act all hurt or upset etc then making me wonder if I'm in the wrong.

Anyone could lose their temper over this type of behaviour even someone who is not on the autism spectrum. You are not in the wrong for being upset over bullying behaviour.

That's happened to me numerous times with certain family members/classmates/acquaintances/co workers. Apparently people think I'm stuck up because I'm quiet and can't be arsed to entertain ppl (despite me being polite 24/7 when I interact with them). But tbh I'd rather have them reveal their cowardly awful ass now than later. It more so confirms my thoughts about them and people in general.

Perhaps you do not wish to talk because of the negative things that they are saying/have said about you. Have they ever thought about that?

 

[Cockney_Rebel]

My housemate described me thus as I passed him on the stairs talking to his gf on the phone. I had earbuds in but I guess he didn't see I took one out.

Someone please pass me the rope?

Kick the fuck head down the stairs.