Venting Is this normal?

[whocares?]

Is this normal?


So, for somehow, my classmates, the boy gang, know that I cut myself.
Then the day after, they joke about it with each others, mimicking the act on the wrist and laughing
Months later, an old friend talk to me and asked me did I cut myself
I asked how he knew, he replied that my classmate, one of the boys, told him

 

[moonlightbeach]

it's not moral but it's a part of society.

from my observations especially prominent in adolescent and senile population, geographically more in eastern europe. my theory is that there's not much going on in their life so they would rather discuss over someone else's.

 

[violetforever]

how old are u? this sounds like typical bullying from boys in high school or even more like middle school. cruel thing to laugh about but yeah people tend be like that. sorry u have to deal with them. boys made me hate school so much. sending u lots of love honey

 

[whocares?]

how old are u? this sounds like typical bullying from boys in high school or even more like middle school. cruel thing to laugh about but yeah people tend be like that. sorry u have to deal with them. boys made me hate school so much. sending u lots of love honey

I'm actually 19, we also have school at 20, the place I'm living is weird :/

 

[Good night]

Unfortunately, it is quite common for humans to laugh at other people's misfortunes. I like to think that it is because their lives are so miserable that they have to shift the focus away from themselves. I know it is easier said than done, but let's see if ignoring them will eventually tire them out. If not, you have to confront them: bullies don't understand any other language.

I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope the situation improves. I hope it doesn't get any darker than it already is.

 

[whocares?]

Unfortunately, it is quite common for humans to laugh at other people's misfortunes. I like to think that it is because their lives are so miserable that they have to shift the focus away from themselves. I know it is easier said than done, but let's see if ignoring them will eventually tire them out. If not, you have to confront them: bullies don't understand any other language.

I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope the situation improves. I hope it doesn't get any darker than it already is.

They kinda freaks me out, it's not really bully since they kinda do that to everyone. They always call other classmates with sexual nickname, and they just like teasing/ joking with other boys by grabbing their... thing.
One time, a weirdo asked me if I watched corn. That same weirdo log on to his friend Facebook account, and post corn links there.
And the dude sitting next to me, he... um, keep touching ... his . He said that it bc he hasnt showered very well

And I dont know if the boys teasing each others are normal, that things makes me gross out, but it is heavily normalised here