Venting Is it really wrong to not leave a suicide note?

[gardenoflonely]

I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I think it would be less stressful on my end to not leave a note. People will feel how they feel regardless, and me trying to take control of a narrative through a note is never going to work. I know that I haven't done anything to deserve to feel like this for so long. That's enough for me. I don't know what explanation I can give to anyone else that won't make something worse. I can't even write that it has nothing to do with them or isn't their fault...ultimately it is my decision I know this but I felt so strange trying to be comforting in this note to people that mistreated or abused me. I started writing out a note on a google doc but it's just so wrong. I deleted the whole thing. They'll be fine without it and me

 

[LonelyPrince]

It's not wrong. You don't owe anyone an explanation. If you weren't heard in life, it's too late to be heard post-death.

 

[TheHangman]

I don't plan to leave a note. I think my hanging body will send more of a message than any note could.

 

[Liebestod]

I won't leave one, I don't feel the need to say goodbye

I don't plan to leave a note. I think my hanging body will send more of a message than any note could.

A gunshot wound with a bloody mess will surely send a message as well.

 

[mrwagnerfan]

You don't owe anyone a note. So feel free not to leave one. I, however, have for some reason always left a note. I like to write so why not? It's different for everybody.

 

[burninghill]

I don't think that it is wrong not to leave a note. I have tried to write them countless times and a short one just felt shallow, but a long one just turned into rambling and brought up more questions than answers. Nobody knows about my suicidality, so trying to write a note that explains it would take a lot of, well, explaining.

The worst part is that I can't even write a note to assure everyone that theres nothing they could've done, because there is a lot of things that the people around me could've done differently that would've helped.

 

[122uth]

i want to write one but i'm losing my mind thinking of how it would be written. everything i write (in general) feels wrong. i wouldn't want to point out anything specific because i don't want to mislead anyone if i'm just being an idiot again and then my stupid words last forever... but i feel like it's wrong to leave no explanation.

i don't blame other people for why i ended up this way (not saying this to spite ppl in this thread. i think i'm lucky that i haven't been hurt by others as much as hurt by myself)