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Ambivalent1

Ambivalent1

🎵 Be all, end all 🎵
Apr 17, 2023
3,278
I'm not physically disabled. The whole not having a job thing really throws a wrench in everything. I'm attractive enough but it doesn't seem to be enough anymore.
 
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Alex Fermentopathy

Alex Fermentopathy

Experienced
Feb 25, 2024
240
As I understand it, the chances are higher for women than for men in this scenario.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,399
You'd probably have to be willing to be more open-minded to someone who is also disabled in a similar way if that's the case. Even then it's still not too easy I'd imagine.
 
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bed

bed

CTBed
Aug 24, 2019
919
Yes, I've been in a long-term relationship while on disability. it does impact things but it isn't a deal breaker for everyone, it definitely makes it harder to find a relationship though.
 
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Ashu

Ashu

novelist, sanskritist, Canadian living in India
Nov 13, 2021
871
Easily - with someone else on disability. I was on psychiatric disability in Canada for most of my twenties, and for most of that time had a steady girlfriend of the same tribe - a much more stable and lasting relationship, actually, than the ones I would have after recovering and getting off disability.
 
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Username1359751

Enlightened
Mar 14, 2024
1,331
My therapists have bern on disability and have partners
 
littlelungs

littlelungs

Wizard
Oct 21, 2018
646
My husband and I are both chronically ill/disabled and were both on disability when we met (and still are), so based on personal experience it is possible. (To be fair, though, we actually met on SS.) It can be more challenging in certain ways, especially depending on the type and degree of disability one may have, but it is still possible.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

I have finally found my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
5,796
Yes, I don't see why it shouldn't be possible
 

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