Is it bad that I wish I lived in a puritan society where everyone wore pilgrim clothing so I'd never have to get turned on by women?

[Ambivalent1]

I wish I had augmented glasses that could cover people with any clothing I wanted.

 

[sserafim]

Lmao sometimes I can't tell if you're serious or not

 

[Ambivalent1]

Lmao sometimes I can't tell if you're serious or not

I am serious. Guys have high sex drives and walking around in public means getting turned on randomly by women who aren't options. Guys can't just approach any woman they want. You can only really approach at bars, clubs, school, work. The last two aren't great options and I don't go to bars or clubs. So there's no way to meet so I'd rather never get turned on.

 

[vak]

You would be turned on by the mere sight of a naked ankle, we already had that. Horniness finds a way

 

[WhiteRabbit]

You would be turned on by the mere sight of a naked ankle, we already had that. Horniness finds a way

Right? Dudes were pitching tents over collarbones and slender wrists.

 

[Ambivalent1]

You would be turned on by the mere sight of a naked ankle, we already had that. Horniness finds a way

Not with me. I knew a Muslim woman who would wear those robes. I could never tell her body shape because of it. She had a nice face and voice but I wasn't turned on.

 

[sserafim]

I am serious. Guys have high sex drives and walking around in public means getting turned on randomly by women who aren't options. Guys can't just approach any woman they want. You can only really approach at bars, clubs, school, work. The last two aren't great options and I don't go to bars or clubs. So there's no way to meet so I'd rather never get turned on.

Oof that sucks. Wait if guys are approachers why'd I have to approach and initiate contact with my crush then? Maybe he just wasn't that into me . Btw have you heard of adorers and the adored? Apparently it's better for men to be adored and women to be the adorer (counterintuitive, right?)

 

[Ambivalent1]

Oof that sucks. Wait if guys are approachers why'd I have to approach and initiate contact with my crush then? Maybe he just wasn't that into me . Btw have you heard of adorers and the adored? Apparently it's better for men to be adored and women to be the adorer (counterintuitive, right?)

Women approach sometimes but it's rare. Women often will smile or do subtle things to show interest. It could be interpreted as friendliness so most men won't see that as signs of interest.