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Sep 26, 2021
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Wht cld pssbly hve gne wrng wth ths thred

Pls d/ nt rsort t/ genrlisatns agn - e.g 'all womn r X - all mn r Y' -- tht ws nt a chromsme pun bt apprntly slf mde 1

Genrlisatns r xhaustng -- evry1 knws tht 'all mn r nt abusrs' & simlr cmmnts d/ nt hlp stuatns eithr wy

H8tefl idelogis r h8tefl & bcse of tht ppl h8 thm

Nt sre Y tht hs 2 trn in2 a anothr sh*t-shw
 
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XxEstenxX

XxEstenxX

A Borderline is speaking. Listen and Learn.
Feb 10, 2026
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just a rant cus they piss me off, but they go like "erm i think women owe me sex and i will assault them if they dont give me it" and don't realise that thinking is partially why women won't ever trust them lmao. how can you see women as less than human and expect any of them to respect you? especially when they then go and cheer on violence towards women (and usually many minority groups like lgbt people or poc or etc)

an oomf of mine was venting about how she gets sexually harassed alot and some fucker replied like "damn thats bad but i think its just as bad that alot of men are lonely" or something along those lines as if those two things are in any way similar, and this isnt even the first time ive seen mfs be like this.
Ugh. My avpd makes me scared to reply to this...but its irking me. I have to.

I hate that "incel" has been stereotyped to mean "hates women" now. The literal definition of an incel is an involuntary celibate person, and femcel is the same deal. A lot of people nowadays are considered incels. It gives us outcasted virgins a bad look, like its our fault we live in a shallow ass society, and I hate being grouped with bigoted people...
 
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Awesomefoid67

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she/it, terminally silly :3
Sep 10, 2024
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Ugh. My avpd makes me scared to reply to this...but its irking me. I have to.

I hate that "incel" has been stereotyped to mean "hates women" now. The literal definition of an incel is an involuntary celibate person, and femcel is the same deal. A lot of people nowadays are considered incels. It gives us outcasted virgins a bad look, like its our fault we live in a shallow ass society, and I hate being grouped with bigoted people...
i mean by technical definition it does just mean someone who hasnt had sex, but culturally that's not what it means at all, and the cultural definition matters more. the word "based" used to just mean like someone who wasnt afraid to speak their mind, but it evolved into "i agree with this" or "this is good."
this has hapened many other times, language judt naturally evolves. the only reason it'd give you a bad look is if you tried to adopt the identity despite the currently accepted meaning
 
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the sleeper agents never sleep or something
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Ugh. My avpd makes me scared to reply to this...but its irking me. I have to.

I hate that "incel" has been stereotyped to mean "hates women" now. The literal definition of an incel is an involuntary celibate person, and femcel is the same deal. A lot of people nowadays are considered incels. It gives us outcasted virgins a bad look, like its our fault we live in a shallow ass society, and I hate being grouped with bigoted people...
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Im mean all genders can get any type of abuse. Not just wemon

But theres a thin like saying which Ive seen - wemon are only good for yknow insert misogynistic here. Also that girls only want chad and they deseserve a girls for their suffering. Which sound kinda backwards.

Can men also suffer any abuse? Yeah. Is not as reported as wemon but is there.

Clearly saying wemon are just better for sex amd shit and full on violence. That Äťr@pe is a myth (sorry for the trigger)


Can some wemon be awful. Yes.

But not all men or wemon are thay way,


Is jusy my opinion with all this, not here for a TED talk the least I want is to anger anyone.
 
Awesomefoid67

Awesomefoid67

she/it, terminally silly :3
Sep 10, 2024
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Im mean all genders can get any type of abuse. Not just wemon

But theres a thin like saying which Ive seen - wemon are only good for yknow insert misogynistic here. Also that girls only want chad and they deseserve a girls for their suffering. Which sound kinda backwards.

Can men also suffer any abuse? Yeah. Is not as reported as wemon but is there.

Clearly saying wemon are just better for sex amd shit and full on violence. That Äťr@pe is a myth (sorry for the trigger)


Can some wemon be awful. Yes.

But not all men or wemon are thay way,


Is jusy my opinion with all this, not here for a TED talk the least I want is to anger anyone.
both can be evil but only one is systematically privileged when it comes to this stuff. similar to how white people can technically experience racism in the west but it's a tiny issue compared to the systemic racism poc people exist to and the scales of each arent comparable
 
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Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
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both can be evil but only one is systematically privileged when it comes to this stuff. similar to how white people can technically experience racism in the west but it's a tiny issue compared to the systemic racism poc people exist to and the scales of each arent comparable
I guess you can look at it that way, sure

(I dont mean to be sarcastic nor offensive)
 
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jengablocks

jengablocks

im jengablocks
Jan 30, 2026
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this is a validating thread.. it's like talking to a wall sometimes and it feels so terribly draining and isolating to lay everything out and just have ppl worm their way out of it through sheer deflection and unwillingness to hear it. i think systemic issues might be hard for some to fully comprehend without personal experience, whether thats firsthand or secondhand through someone close to u.

theres the idea of fish hook theory , where centrism serves as a guise for unpacked far-right sympathies and i think its applicable here. i see confusion from just not having a fuller understanding of politics sometimes, too. liek conflating white liberalism with everything further left of it, which causes problems becoz there are genuine problems there that u are so close to understanding...

but it's like trying to tear down so many walls that ppl have built internally (and understandably, under the system it's by design) with a spoon . i wish there was an easier way because it just distracts from creating meaningful change that benefits everyone
 
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