Right, I am not implying that the bag is supposed to be flush with the neck but I believe that if it's too loose it can definitely pose a problem and prolong death, since a higher percentage of oxygen would enter the system.
The kit I have includes a SCBA mask with demand valve and regulator, so gas is only let into the system when I breathe and the pressure and flow are automatically adjusted. I have tried the mask on without the demand valve and thus no gas flowing and can confirm that the mask is completely airtight from the environment, ensuring maximum lethality once the gas is on and the demand valve activated.
And I've come to understand that using a SCBA mask with a demand valve is not only quicker, it also requires significantly less gas because of the efficiency of the mask and integrated demand valve. However, I had already purchased a 40 cubic foot cylinder before I discovered the kit I eventually purchased online.
I suppose it worked out okay. I have ample gas for a trial run to test how quickly I become unconscious and experience how it feels since there's always some variability from person to person.