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depressedsoul

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Sep 21, 2021
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Any advice?
If I vomit and lock the bathroom door will it be loud enough to interrupt my mother's sleep? I am very desperate, plz reply.
 
BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
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Why are you desperate? This can't wait a year or something?
 
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Originaldon

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Aug 27, 2020
139
This can't be serious
 
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Originaldon

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Aug 27, 2020
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How can anyone possibly answer your question?? Nobody knows how deep your mum sleeps or how loud you puke?

Like seriously things like this baffle me

nobody can answer it except you. Just use common sense
 
Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
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How can anyone possibly answer your question?? Nobody knows how deep your mum sleeps or how loud you puke?

Like seriously things like this baffle me

nobody can answer it except you. Just use common sense
What the post was really telling us is that they still sleep next to their mum. Red flag
 
Mors

Mors

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Jul 24, 2021
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How can anyone possibly answer your question?? Nobody knows how deep your mum sleeps or how loud you puke?

Like seriously things like this baffle me

nobody can answer it except you. Just use common sense

@depressedsoul is obviously very distressed as they are considering taking their life.

They mentioned that they have been diagnosed with several mental health issues. Your comment is unhelpful and probably makes their situation worse.
What the post was really telling us is that they still sleep next to their mum. Red flag
Actually they said that their mom sleeps "next door", which sounds like they are referring to an adjacent room in their home.

And even if that wasn't the case, why make judgmental comments? You don't know the specifics of their situation.

I think we should continue to use this platform to support and uplift each other, not make belittling or unproductive comments.
 
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Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
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@depressedsoul is obviously very distressed as they are considering taking their life.

They mentioned that they have been diagnosed with several mental health issues. Your comment is unhelpful and probably makes their situation worse.

Actually they said that their mom sleeps "next door", which sounds like they are referring to an adjacent room in their home.

And even if that wasn't the case, why make judgmental comments? You don't know the specifics of their situation.

I think we should continue to use this platform to support and uplift each other, not make belittling or unproductive comments.
I'm looking at it from the mums point of view such is the age I am. She doesn't want to find her kid dead in the morning. I think they know that and want stopping. I worry about who would recommend it
 
Mors

Mors

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Jul 24, 2021
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I'm looking at it from the mums point of view such is the age I am. She doesn't want to find her kid dead in the morning. I think they know that and want stopping. I worry about who would recommend it
I am not recommending that they end their lives either. Suicide is always a huge decision because of the finality of it.

Whenever anyone says that they are suicidal I feel terrible that their lives have reached such a breaking point; this feeling is magnified tenfold when I hear that a young person is considering suicide because I have learned firsthand that some issues can be overcome with time.

To me your comment sounded very harsh which doesn't help someone that is already in distress. If that is not what you meant than I am sorry.
 
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