I'm ugly.

[SadMonster725]

I'm ugly. I know I'm ugly. I've been bullied for being ugly all of my life; even after high school as an adult.

I wish I had a boyfriend, but I'm no man's type. I dream of marrying and having children, but...

I can change my body, but I can't change my face (naturally). I'd feel sorry for myself if I wasn't so ugly.

 

[JustAnotherSadMan]

I'm a man with a small penis and I empathize greatly with that same feeling of longing for something you think you'll never have.

 

[Culprit]

I can understand you I'm a boy I look ugly I'm so underweight I look like a skeleton Some people make fun of my body and face

 

[makebelieve]

same i just want to die because im too ugly to feel normal.

 

[mnguy]

I can understand you I'm a boy I look ugly I'm so underweight I look like a skeleton Some people make fun of my body and face

some people love skinny all depends what people are looking for ...

 

[deathproof17]

I can relate. I'm so ugly that I am nobody's type.

 

[star.trip]

I don't know if this thread is to vent to you or if it's so I can give you my opinion. Unfortunately more and more value is given to image when what matters is the person himself. I'm sorry you had a hard time because of your looks.

 

[maniac116]

I personally believe that the true beauty of a person comes from the inside.
I dated Po physically attractive women who were very ugly people. My 3 long term relationships have been with people who weren't particularly pretty people but their inner beauty made them beautiful to be with & look at.
Get in touch & get confidence with you inner beauty!

 

[nir]

I'm quite ugly too. I focus a lot on the goal of future plastic surgery. I think it will give me a chance of more quality of life - just wish it wasn't so expensive. I wish I was born pretty basically every day. I know realistically it's such a stupid thing to worry about - everyone who lives long enough will eventually look old, wrinkly, not beautiful to society's standards, etc - but I just wish I could spend a day without worrying about being so so ugly. I feel like it would be so fun.

 

[gnarly]

I'm ugly aswell. However you shouldn't be so harsh on yourself. Your soul could be beautiful. And that's what matters most.

 

[lawlietsph]

I'm ugly too. No matter how many times people tell you "nooooo, you are so pretty"
I mean come on. I have eyes.
To me it's incredible how depression can change a face. I don't even recognize myself now - never been pretty, but on top of that now I look 20 years older because of depression. I have wrinkles and black circles under my eyes and around my mouth. It is disgusting. No man will ever look at me and not be like ewww
I fucking hate every inch of my body

 

[JustAnotherSadMan]

some people love skinny all depends what people are looking for ...

Fr, my step bro is skinny-fat and engaged

 

[theboy]

Beauty standards

 

[cinnamonstix]

As someone who works in the beauty industry, hair makeup etc, I know firsthand people come in all forms and shapes and faces. What I will say is, if you hate the way you look, you can always alter it with makeup. It's what I love about being goth lol. I paint my face white with giant lips and eyeliner and look like a totally different person. I look like Uncle Fester without makeup, and most women do too. It's the thing about the industry. It's all a facade, but I'm sure everyone knows that, it's still hard.

Not trying to invaldiate your feelings either. I've been trying to lose weight for years now and always feel hideous and disgusting, but you can hide it, masque it. I'm surrounded by fake beauty and real beauty, it's all subjective and you can be whoever you want to be

 

[EvisceratedJester]

What I will say is, if you hate the way you look, you can always alter it with makeup.

Honestly, I don't know if that is good advice. Makeup doesn't do anything to actually address the OP's underlying issues and may even end up worsening their image of themself over time. There are a lot of cases of women who wear makeup because they have issues with their appearance only for it to end up worsening their hatred of their appearance over time.

 

[cinnamonstix]

Honestly, I don't know if that is good advice. Makeup doesn't do anything to actually address the OP's underlying issues and may even end up worsening their image of themself over time. There are a lot of cases of women who wear makeup because they have issues with their appearance only for it to end up worsening their hatred of their appearance over time.

That's true, It's a matter of perspective and you will always know yourself better. I just know from personal experience, being able to change my face every other day has helped my perception of not just myself but other people/beauty standards. Knowing anyone can look like anyone and "ugly" or "beautiful" just depends on what you deem likeable and unlikeable. Most people think my makeup is extra and off putting but I've never felt more beautiful. It's about highlighting what you love. I should've expressed that better. It can be a trap to fall into though, the industry can suck you in if you're not careful.

 

[Ozzyno]

Even if you were not ugly people would still be terrible and finding someone who can communicate with you would be impossible anyway. I'm not talking about you in the specific… I was never considered ugly but in 26 years I couldn't find anyone with a decent mind. Women seem like they hate men that give attention and love, they keep SAYING they want that, in reality they just want the usual retard that will spit on their faces everyday. Then when I start talking about my problems no matter what they will run away and making up excuses to not be part of my life. Believe me… physical beauty is the last problem you have, it's just a world full of shitty shitty people.

 

[deadzombie6]

Same here I'm so fucking ugly nobody would even look at me let alone date or marry

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Women seem like they hate men that give attention and love, they keep SAYING they want that, in reality they just want the usual retard that will spit on their faces everyday.

If you notice that there is a pattern in which women are generally not a big fan of you, then at some point the issue isn't them, it's you. Get out of here with that sexist "uwu poor me" bullshit.

 

[Ozzyno]

If you notice that there is a pattern in which women are generally not a big fan of you, then at some point the issue isn't them, it's you. Get out of here with that sexist "uwu poor me" bullshit.

I could've said the same thing about every women here: to not say that sexist 'uwu poor me' bullshit.

The reality is that no matter what I do the result is the same… I live in a place with very few people and it would be really difficult to move away.

I never said that I was perfect or that every woman is wrong but I am saying that if you treat women with respect they will eventually start to lose interest in you. I've had a shitty childhood and for me it's really difficult to behave differently and to not open up with my emotions.

SOME women are just like you are: garbage. When you point out a problem they will tell you that you want to be a victim so you can never say anything and you end up suicidal because you can never say how you feel, just live by the day and put a fake smile on your face and act happy, I thought this was a place where I could say what I feel like without judgement but even here some shitty people like you are present and active. But don't worry I don't care about what you say… I'm gonna cut my throat away anyway in a couple of months when I will pay off my debt so honestly just keep thinking I am sexist because I would've liked to receive a hug from my father or anything besides people telling me lies for the entire time for some reason I never understood…

If you notice that there is a pattern in which women are generally not a big fan of you, then at some point the issue isn't them, it's you. Get out of here with that sexist "uwu poor me" bullshit.

When a woman cannot find a partner and expresses bad feelings she must be (rightfully) helped and understood.

If I do that it means that I am shit and sexist.

That's just what someone on SS needs to hear, my main problem was a whole childhood of my dad and brother putting me down and laughing at everything I was doing or loving and now at the age of 26 I have to hear from people that I cannot be sad or disappointed when I cannot find anyone that would accept my love.

Really, I am speechless. I literally don't want to believe that reality is like this and that people and women think like you do. Living is really hell.

 

[that_guy2611]

Same here fam. We uglies should start a dating app or something

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I never said that I was perfect or that every woman is wrong but I am saying that if you treat women with respect they will eventually start to lose interest in you. I've had a shitty childhood and for me it's really difficult to behave differently and to not open up with my emotions.

SOME women are just like you are: garbage. When you point out a problem they will tell you that you want to be a victim so you can never say anything and you end up suicidal because you can never say how you feel, just live by the day and put a fake smile on your face and act happy, I thought this was a place where I could say what I feel like without judgement but even here some shitty people like you are present and active. But don't worry I don't care about what you say… I'm gonna cut my throat away anyway in a couple of months when I will pay off my debt so honestly just keep thinking I am sexist because I would've liked to receive a hug from my father or anything besides people telling me lies for the entire time for some reason I never understood…

The fact that you felt the need to call me garbage for calling you out on your sexist fuckery already makes it pretty clear to me why women keep on leaving you. Maybe, instead of claiming that women don't really want love or to be respected, how about you instead actually take the time to reflect on yourself and your own actions. Again, you seem to be the problem here.

 

[Ozzyno]

The fact that you felt the need to call me garbage for calling you out on your sexist fuckery already makes it pretty clear to me why women keep on leaving you. Maybe, instead of claiming that women don't really want love or to be respected, how about you instead actually take the time to reflect on yourself and your own actions. Again, you seem to be the problem here.

I call you garbage because that's what you are. It's not sexist for men to have problems and to observe the way women behave with them for various reasons just like it's not sexist for women to have the same problems with men. I can claim whatever I want to claim, you don't know me so you don't know how I behave when I am not here in what should be a free place from people like you that live just to put other people down.

You are a garbage 'human being', just like my father, you just live to have zero empathy, the real sexist is you, a man cannot have a problem because you said so. You just assume I've always been like this or that I say these things when I am talking with people in real life. I've always been open and respectful to everyone, unlike you that on SS put down a random member that was just expressing themselves with mockery and words, shame on you, garbage.

 

[hao☆]

I'm ugly. I know I'm ugly. I've been bullied for being ugly all of my life; even after high school as an adult.

I wish I had a boyfriend, but I'm no man's type. I dream of marrying and having children, but...

I can change my body, but I can't change my face (naturally). I'd feel sorry for myself if I wasn't so ugly.

i feel u, no matter how many people will tell me nor reassure me anything or something like that "oh no! You've blossomed very much since you were a child, you're very pretty!" "Why would you say that about yourself?? Look at the mirror again!!" How come are people able to say this when you cant even love me??? If i really am pretty show it, atleast care about me instead of just making people feel good with sweet words that aren't really what they think of me or anything, im tired of bullshit, im tired of fucking EVERYTHING

 

[Ozzyno]

i feel u, no matter how many people will tell me nor reassure me anything or something like that "oh no! You've blossomed very much since you were a child, you're very pretty!" "Why would you say that about yourself?? Look at the mirror again!!" How come are people able to say this when you cant even love me??? If i really am pretty show it, atleast care about me instead of just making people feel good with sweet words that aren't really what they think of me or anything, im tired of bullshit, im tired of fucking EVERYTHING

I've had girlfriends telling me they loved me and at the same time telling me that I couldn't find anyone else because I wasn't good enough, criticising me over anything and so on… it feels like it's hard to find someone that would communicate without lying, especially when they understand you feel bad, they start doing that but it makes me feel even worse because I know it's false… maybe it's similar to your feeling

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I call you garbage because that's what you are. It's not sexist for men to have problems and to observe the way women behave with them for various reasons just like it's not sexist for women to have the same problems with men. I can claim whatever I want to claim, you don't know me so you don't know how I behave when I am not here in what should be a free place from people like you that live just to put other people down.

You are a garbage 'human being', just like my father, you just live to have zero empathy, the real sexist is you, a man cannot have a problem because you said so. You just assume I've always been like this or that I say these things when I am talking with people in real life. I've always been open and respectful to everyone, unlike you that on SS put down a random member that was just expressing themselves with mockery and words, shame on you, garbage.

You are literally calling me garbage, dude. I don't think you get to pull the "your putting me down" card when you are insulting me. Also, what issue exactly? It seems to me like you are just making a bunch of generalizations about women the same way nice guys do.

 

[hao☆]

I've had girlfriends telling me they loved me and at the same time telling me that I couldn't find anyone else because I wasn't good enough, criticising me over anything and so on… it feels like it's hard to find someone that would communicate without lying, especially when they understand you feel bad, they start doing that but it makes me feel even worse because I know it's false… maybe it's similar to your feeling

same thing everyone i've met was so manipulative of me..

 

[Ozzyno]

You are literally calling me garbage dude. I don't think that get to pull the "your putting me down" card. Also, what issue exactly? It seems to me like you are just making a bunch of generalizations about women the same way nice guys do.

You started telling me I was sexiest and mocking me as a victim just because in 26 years I've only experienced shit from every corner and especially in the relationship world! Generalisation? Everyone here is making one! Women here are complaining men don't want them because they look bad. Well I am making a generalisation by saying that women don't want me because I am probably not acting like a 'somebody' since women like that so much. Can I talk about my problems or do you have to mock me? Evaporate

 

[EvisceratedJester]

You started telling me I was sexiest and mocking me as a victim just because in 26 years I've only experienced shit from every corner and especially in the relationship world! Generalisation? Everyone here is making one! Women here are complaining men don't want them because they look bad. Well I am making a generalisation by saying that women don't want me because I am probably not acting like a 'somebody' since women like that so much. Can I talk about my problems or do you have to mock me? Evaporate

A victim of what exactly? You are making a shitty generalized statement about women and now you are getting upset that I'm not responding sympathetically to you. Also, there are men on here who complain about women not wanting them due to their appearance. The thing is, most of those guys don't say things like, "Women don't really want love or respect". Same thing the other way around. Also, how is me calling out the fact that if you keep on having issues with women then at some point you are the common denominator of me "mocking you"? I'm honestly starting to feel like you are proving my point. The fact that your response to being called out for making a sexist statement is to immediately start playing victim, name-calling, and randomly bringing up your past trauma doesn't exactly reflect well on you.

 

[Wilt-On-High]

I'm ugly too :(
I've never had a boyfriend
And everybody hates being around me
(Even though they act like they don't)

I gunienly look like a fucking praying mantis' long lost cousin cause I'm so ugly and skinny :((

Just kill me already