Im so pathetic i cant get my ex e gf out of my head

[Canttakeitanymore]

Im so fucking pathetic its been months she said she doesnt have any feeling for me anymore and im still suffering for her while she doesnt give one shit about me anymore, shes just enjoying life talking to other guys while im here suffering, i just want to fucking die

 

[Canttakeitanymore]

She was the angel from my nightmare

 

[fixitinpost]

Everyone processes things at their own pace, and you just gotta allow yourself to go at yours. It doesn't make you pathetic at all! Months is also not a long time.

In a couple of months it will have been a year since me and my ex broke up. I still think about her every day.

Talking about it helps. I'm here if you want to talk.

 

[Neowise]

You're not pathetic if you can't stop thinking about her, don't be so harsh to yourself! I'm sure this is very common when relationships end. But relationships come and go, love is never permanent. Commiting suicide over a relationship is never worth it, even if it seems like it for you right now. If you want to talk we are all here for you.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Partaking in romantic relationships should be a capital offense.

 

[Last chance]

Im so fucking pathetic its been months she said she doesnt have any feeling for me anymore and im still suffering for her while she doesnt give one shit about me anymore, shes just enjoying life talking to other guys while im here suffering, i just want to fucking die

I know the feeling. I get worked up by thoughts of her at 6am every day abs they remain until I eventually get to sleep each night.
It's truly exhausting.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

That's really rough buddy and I know the feeling. I had something similar happen where the girl I was talking to a few months ago and who crumpled my already shriveled-heart before we could even start a relationship seems to have fully moved on for me since she recently deleted her discord account which was our only means of contact. In my case she probably just made a new one so she could talk with someone else. I'm at least glad she's happy if that's true...

 

[Canttakeitanymore]

You're not pathetic if you can't stop thinking about her, don't be so harsh to yourself! I'm sure this is very common when relationships end. But relationships come and go, love is never permanent. Commiting suicide over a relationship is never worth it, even if it seems like it for you right now. If you want to talk we are all here for you.

She was the only girl that ever liked me she was my only hope

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

I'm so wretchedly pitiful I can't get over a girl who never even liked me that way in the first place. Been going on for years.

 

[ThrownAwayTom]

I feel you man. It's been 3 years since I split with my ex and I still think about her at least once a day. She's happy with another guy now and I should be happy for her (and I am), but this sick fucking mental illness made me throw away what was by far the best thing I'd ever had and it still hurts. Even family members I see once a year like my grandparent actually ask me why I'm not with her anymore (even though I've told them countless times), because they can't believe I was ever with someone like her.

With time you end up being able to just shut down the train of thought when it starts but not always. I recently began dreaming about her and not being able to speak to her and it fucking sucks.

Partaking in romantic relationships should be a capital offense.

This.

 

[WornOutLife]

When you love and spend lots of time with someone, of course it's very difficult to get them out of your head. However, it's not impossible.

If you loved once, you will love more times as long as you look for another chances. Love comes when you expect it the least but not going out or interacting virtually with lots of people makes it harder.

Just get used to thinking about your gf and analyze the reasons why you're not with her anymore. Remember love is like this: there's always one person who gets fed up/bored or stops loving the other one.
It's happened to me more than once and I was on both sides.

Wish you the best,

Hugs

 

[autisticalex]

This is why I will never develop feelings for a woman.

Women just latch onto you and drain you like a vampire.

When they get bored they coldly disregard you and move onto the next man to drain.

If she stays with you they make you fat and unattractive so you are forced to stay with them and they just drain the life out of you.

It's best just to have sex with them and not become friends with them. Sharing your problems should be only between friends and therapists, women just lose all respect for you the minute you say you have any problem.

If you're ugly try to avoid women and never speak to them, that's what I am doing. If you are good looking just have sex with them but see them no more than as an anchor that drags you down emotionally and realise they wouldn't think twice about ditching you and moving onto the next guy.

There are probably 5 percent of women that aren't anchors but I've never met one.

Those religious men were onto something by becoming celebate and rejecting women
Women are the biggest Leachers ever.

Mother's sabotaging their sons so they can't leave the nest and find girlfriends so the mother won't have to compete for their sons love.

Girlfriends leaching off boyfriends, coldly disregarding them and moving from man to man.

Just view them only as baby making machines. Problem solved. Love is for teenagers.

Poly is the way forward. Girlfriend leaves you? Who cares you have three others.

 

[Neowise]

She was the only girl that ever liked me she was my only hope

Sounds like this was your first relationship. I can't really relate because I have been forever alone since birth but I've heard that the first partner is the one people never forget. It's a new experience so it is something special. I am certain you will find someone else. Someone who deserves you and your love more

This is why I will never develop feelings for a woman.
Women just latch onto you and drain you like a vampire.
When they get bored they coldly disregard you and move onto the next man to drain.

- "Whamen bad, all whamen are whores since birth, whamen shall be property again."
- "Why won't any woman love me? It must be their fault because I am perfect."

Mother's sabotaging their sons so they can't leave the nest and find girlfriends so the mother won't have to compete for their sons love.

Kinda sad that I can relate with that though. I feel like my mother does that with me except that it is not about my love for her but about her having a pet by her side she can command around and spend time with. She is a narcissist though, but I don't wanna derail this thread further.

 

[autisticalex]

Idk I love my "ex girlfriend", it was totally unexpected... But yes I love her. One of the reasons I don't kill myself I care about her so much I wouldn't want her to blame her self... Or be hurt by me. I don't know how I can love or care about someone who said they can't tolerate me being in their life....

Only girl I love, I will never love another woman ever again.

 

[Dead beat dad]

Im so fucking pathetic its been months she said she doesnt have any feeling for me anymore and im still suffering for her while she doesnt give one shit about me anymore, shes just enjoying life talking to other guys while im here suffering, i just want to fucking die

Brother I feel you.
This maybe one of those things that never goes away.
Exes can make your life hell and they don't even mean to.

I know guys and girls who are tearing them self apart over exes even years after they have gone their separate ways.

Brother I know its not maybe what you want to hear but let her go.
Love her by all means but not at the expense of yourself. Have love and be kind but this also means to yourself.

Sorry brother I don't usually give advice so please feel free to ignore me its cool, just I feel this like others, and like others I'm trying to make peace with it too.

Love and respect to you brother

DBD

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Here man, maybe this video won't help in the long run but it did give me some temporary hope when I first saw it a while ago:

 

[sparkie]

Understand it's very hard went through it myself but having lived a bit now I've come to see women as strange creatures nearly a different species they can be quite heartless, cold and shallow- so I would try not to lose too much sleep over it

 

[Darrenloses]

Same bro I tried to chase my ex on Saturday. Didn't go to plan but its made me realize I have issues that I need to sort out.

 

[Makko]

Women just latch onto you and drain you like a vampire.

I wish the real world was more like a cool gothic tragedy novel.

 

[unlovible000]

You've gotten farther then me, I've practically never even spoke to a girl before.

 

[popcorn]

train your mind to think about the things u didn't like about her every time you think about her, there must have been one thing at least she did that annoyed you or you didn't like

write down a list of all her negative aspects, and consciously make yourself think about those instead, it wont be long until your feeling better

 

[StringPuppet]

It's not pathetic, things like that are often out of our control

 

[sparkie]

I wish the real world was more like a cool gothic tragedy novel.

Try YouTube Sherlock Holmes Basil Rathbone and Nigel Bruce

 

[Cherry Crumpet]

I can't say I know how you feel since I'm not you.. but I was dumped by the person I thought I was going to marry in December. I still think about him daily... It's for the best we broke up, but I feel like all the 'typical' dreams I have died with the end of that relationship. (to have a family, have a partner).

I'm hanging on precariously now. Trying to find new dreams from the ashes of my dead ones.

 

[Callie Arcale]

Im so fucking pathetic its been months she said she doesnt have any feeling for me anymore and im still suffering for her while she doesnt give one shit about me anymore, shes just enjoying life talking to other guys while im here suffering, i just want to fucking die

Heartbreak is one of the worst pains in the world. It cuts right through your soul. You are not pathetic @Canttakeitanymore . You are hurt and going through something very, very hard. ((Gentle Hugs))