Venting I'm non existent already

[wannarest]

Evreyone ignoring me, even here no one answer my pm or chat

 

[hendry]

Maybe it's just a bad day. How are you?

 

[Kbeau]

Hey, you got two replies now!!

 

[wannarest]

Maybe it's just a bad day. How are you?

like evry other day

 

[Makko]

Four replies now. You're getting popular.

 

[wannarest]

..... no one answer my pm or chat

don't want to

 

[aneurysm]

I am like you, sometimes I feel invisible and it makes me insecure too :) What I do is that I try to make others feel seen by reading and liking and quoting them. It helps a lot and sometimes they notice me back.

 

[Kbeau]

I am like you, sometimes I feel invisible and it makes me insecure too :) What I do is that I try to make others feel seen by reading and liking and quoting them. It helps a lot and sometimes they notice me back.

Great advice!

 

[wannarest]

If I had such social skills, wouldn't be here in SS

 

[_Kaira_]

If I had such social skills, wouldn't be here in SS

I relate this way to a certain extent.
A lot of my current problems are caused by the fact I am a social dumpster fire, and have panic attack inducing anxiety.

 

[Zhontafly]

Hello @wannarest . You are rather new here. Welcome to SS!

 

[A Desperate Fool]

I think I can relate. Every day I feel completely invisible and inconsequential. There's only one person whose attention I really care about, my wife/best friend, and I haven't seen or heard from her in a month.

 

[Zhontafly]

I think I can relate. Every day I feel completely invisible and inconsequential. There's only one person whose attention I really care about, my wife/best friend, and I haven't seen or heard from her in a month.

If you dont mind my asking, why is it that you havnt heard from your wife for a month?

 

[A Desperate Fool]

If you dont mind my asking, why is it that you havnt heard from your wife for a month?

I don't completely understand it myself. She said she needed time to think. She won't answer or acknowledge my attempts at reaching out. But then, her profile picture on Facebook is still a picture of the two of us, which gives me hope.

 

[Zhontafly]

I don't completely understand it myself. She said she needed time to think. She won't answer or acknowledge my attempts at reaching out. But then, her profile picture on Facebook is still a picture of the two of us, which gives me hope.

Well I will hope for you both as well. I recommend staying strong and keeping the emotions in check. You can use this experience to achieve a greater mastery over them. Women from all my experience (mostly american women) tend to not respect men who are too emotional or come off as being insecure and needy. So if you have that going against you, then work on building yourself up with a stronger and more independent character.

I hope this doesnt come off as being judgemental and critical of you. I dont really know you of course, but I am offering what I feel could maybe help you. out. All the best!

 

[A Desperate Fool]

I recommend staying strong and keeping the emotions in check.

I left her a voicemail and told her I missed her and cried a tiny bit. I didn't say anything I regret or didn't mean. And I don't think I've ever come off as desperate. Just understandably upset, I think. And I haven't tried too many times to reach out, I don't think. I will try to be stronger from now on though. Thank you.

 

[Zhontafly]

I left her a voicemail and told her I missed her and cried a tiny bit. I didn't say anything I regret or didn't mean. And I don't think I've ever come off as desperate. Just understandably upset, I think. And I haven't tried too many times to reach out, I don't think. I will try to be stronger from now on though. Thank you.

You're welcome and if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM/DM me.