Im an Incel loser and I hate it

[bankai]

4 beers, this thread was worth 4

Anyway don't worry about girls op, the right one will come as you wander the earth and if she doesn't then it wasn't meant to be.

meanwhile you have us!! what better way to while away the time eh?

 

[Subhumano]

Im a 27 year old virgin
The virginest member of this forum

 

[Aloneandinpain]

Im a 27 year old virgin
The virginest member of this forum

I'm past the age for making a movie about my virginity. Way more pathetic than your situation. Only thing worse would be paying for it.

idk, if you build your whole life around a future woman you're never going to be happy, especially when you do find someone to be that woman. Make your own happiness, find fulfillment in your own life. A partner will naturally appear in the process.Fiis is a lie. If youre

idk, if you build your whole life around a future woman you're never going to be happy, especially when you do find someone to be that woman. Make your own happiness, find fulfillment in your own life. A partner will naturally appear in the process.

Sorry but the second part of this advice is complete bullshit if you're an average guy.

I wasted two decades hoping someone will magically appear and they never do. Even when I've put huge amounts of effort in I still got rejected but maybe if I'd sought out woman constantly I'd have T least have been kissed at some point in the past.

I can only guess you're female and simply don't understand how invisible so many guys are to women. There's lots of suicidal guys here who have been starved of touch/love/romance/sex not for a month or a year but for their entire lives and the chances are that it will continue for eternity in most cases.

 

[iamrealandyouarenot]

Thanks for your reply, no need to apologise for the wall of text, its alright, I enjoy reading things. I dont do these things that you just stated. Are there any other things in regards to coming over as creepy or weird, that I should know of and are important?

I can't really think of anything else, if you're not creepy then you really don't have anything to worry about. It's way more common than you think, this generation is having a lot less sex and dating less. I think it's a matter of being focused on other things and i don't think it's bad thing. I mean is there anyone you even like? Don't seek out women just because you're worried you can't get one. When you find someone you like being around let her know that. It's way better than going on tinder dates and trying to force conversation. Keep in mind that you should be in a relationship because someone makes you happy and because you make one another happy, not because it's the social norm.

 

[Aloneandinpain]

I can't really think of anything else, if you're not creepy then you really don't have anything to worry about. It's way more common than you think, this generation is having a lot less sex and dating less. I think it's a matter of being focused on other things and i don't think it's bad thing. I mean is there anyone you even like? Don't seek out women just because you're worried you can't get one. When you find someone you like being around let her know that. It's way better than going on tinder dates and trying to force conversation. Keep in mind that you should be in a relationship because someone makes you happy and because you make one another happy, not because it's the social norm.

Life becomes incredibly lonely eventually, especially if you don't at least have fond memories of being loved in the past. Activities become increasingly meaningless if you're always by yourself.

I basically feel like my life hasn't begun yet, at least in terms of my adult life.

 

[Michelstaedter]

I agreed to stop being an INCEL the moment I was no longer interested in being in a relationship with a woman.
I'm heterosexual, however, and to summarize my journey, I can say that sometimes there's something that turns me on more, and that's watching hentai. Obviously, in hentai, aside from the absurd and grotesque incest plot, NTR, and other things, seeing women? With perfect attributes, eager, and other things that are like a crazy sexual fantasy turned into animation, is something that resonates with me and makes me feel like there's no need for anyone else if you want something sexual. Now, if we're talking about a romance, well, yes, there might be a need for another person, but that doesn't include my "former INCEL side."

I believe that to stop wanting to be an INCEL isn't to ironically achieve the goal of having a woman, whether she's a prostitute or not, accept you and have sex with you. Stopping being an INCEL is in the idea, in the concept. Therefore, from the moment you stop considering so-called "celibacy" as something forced, it becomes simply being you, being who you are. A virgin, a pure, a "loser" according to stupid social standards.

 

[Pale_Rider]

Incel is an evil word. its only a matter of time. Being a person with DID, who became a machine Obviously I was a late bloomer. I still don't get emotional stuff that great ( which is the realm of a woman ) , but I can tell you that the best comes to those who dont worry about it.

Whoever invented the word Incel was a devil.

 

[tradecode62]

Pretty much the title, girls just arent interested in me. They all think that Iam just some awkward weirdo, which Iam. There was this one girl I liked and I thought liked me back, but she rejected me some time back and now pretends to not know me.

I have some friends, and a loving family, I always was that smart kid with good grades back in school, but what use did that serve. Iam not even mad, just sad and desperate, I dont wanna die alone, I dont wanna disappoint my parents and family, Iam scared.
When I talk about it with my dad, he just says that I need to be patient and that someone will eventually come along, but I doubt that. He says that, because he is my father and loves me, and I honestly believes, that he thinks that this will happen, but the experiences I had and have dont give me much hope

I post this here, because I know people on here understand and might know how it feels like and might even be able to give me some advice, because this whole thing is really dragging me down. I fr dont want to die and I dont plan to ctb anytime soon, its too early to lose all hope (Iam in my very early 20s, I still have some time), but living a lonely life, as some weirdo, who has no wife or family of his own doesn't sound appealing either...

OK, look.. If koochi is your problem I can tell you where to solve that..

I don't care how dopey you are, If you go to thailand you are gonna be fought over by some of the finest girls on the planet.

Western women are the worst.

Women from Thailand and philippines they will come up to you while you're watching television with a warm bowl of water and a soft towel, and they will be literally upset.If you don't let them wash your feet..

https://thaifriendly.com

Problem solved

Im a 27 year old virgin
The virginest member of this forum

Stop complaining and go to the thailand website.

You can thank me later

Im a 27 year old virgin
The virginest member of this forum

Stop complaining and go to the thailand website.

You can thank me later

 

[EvisceratedJester]

The only advice I can give is to stop worrying about this kind of shit. It's easy to think that getting a partner is the be-all end-all, but it really isn't. Being single is only about as unappealing as you want to make it out to be. Finding a girlfriend isn't magically going to provide you with any sort of long-term happiness or fulfillment. I'm not trying to demonize relationships or anything (I'm in one right now), but I've watched my dad go through two abusive relationships because of this sort of mentality. It's fine not to have a wife and being single isn't anything to be ashamed of, no what others tell you. Being in a relationship doesn't in itself address anything in regards to loneliness (you even have members on here who are in relationships yet talk about feelings lonely) and you don't need to be in one to create a family of your own.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

This is a situation that requires an Astolfo, here you go ! Enjoy.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Western women are the worst.

Women from Thailand and philippines they will come up to you while you're watching television with a warm bowl of water and a soft towel, and they will be literally upset.If you don't let them wash your feet..

This is like a joke, right?

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

This is like a joke, right?

I feel like as an Astolfo, there's a joke I can make about thailand here.

 

[tradecode62]

This is like a joke, right?

No, He said he was an incel.. I gave him a solution to that problem

 

[tradecode62]

Damn i'm getting shit can from the suicide website.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Damn i'm getting shit can from the suicide website.

I feel like you've never interacted with a Filipina or Thai woman before...

 

[tradecode62]

I feel like you've never interacted with a Filipina or Thai woman before...

I promise you that you are not correct.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I promise you that you are not correct.

Oh, I can tell you are lying, lol.

 

[tradecode62]

Oh, I can tell you are lying, lol.

I am happy for you.

 

[geoffsuplex]

idk, if you build your whole life around a future woman you're never going to be happy, especially when you do find someone to be that woman. Make your own happiness, find fulfillment in your own life. A partner will naturally appear in the process.

Exactly this. It's not healthy to pin your hopes on finding love, as it will lead to over-attachment and clinginess in general. You're more than likely going to go out with several women before finding the right one. But chasing it is a waste of time. Love finds its way to you on its own time.

Please spend your time doing what you love. She'll find her way to you along the way.

 

[bankai]

You can thank me later

I'm thanking you NOW good sir!
I can't wait to have some ladies fighting over me ASAP.

I hope no blood is spilled

 

[tradecode62]

I'm thanking you NOW good sir!

Nice..

Be nice to them and they will be nice back..

Just be Warned that they are not looking to chat with you all day if you're not planning to go to thailand.

Try not to waste their time

If you have the means to go over there and live over there you can marry a supermodel.

I I'm not kidding

If thailand is like rainbows, Tinder is a tornado.

Be aware there are girls over there that will rob you... ...like that one guy that married a really hot girl and he gave her access to his bank account and he had $250k in there And he made her a signer on the bank, she took all his money and he committed suicide the next day.

It's like a dating Disneyland but be aware.There are a few demons walking around over there.But for the most part , it's just like any other people there's good and bad.

 

[bankai]

This is like a joke, right?

tbh mine was only lukewarm.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

tbh mine was only lukewarm.

Ew, go away

 

[soledad.virgen]

it is strange how unempathizing people are towards those who just seek companionship, it's no wonder some see that and develop misanthropic tendencies and then act out on them hhh. the world could use more kindness and uplifting

 

[Tree_Hugger]

If you are not in a happy committed relationship and either are a women or do well with women, you're not qualified to tell a self-described incel what they are doing wrong/right and what's good/bad about them. You're entitled to your opinion but it's like taking shooting advice from a swimmer. I am nonbinary, I have a wife, and I am very familiar with being awkward, anxious, etc AND dating men who were awkward and not all the things toxic male 'influencer' types like Andrew Tate tell you you need to be a valid/real guy and thus entitled to a women. Reach out if you want to learn and fix your situation- otherwise, just keep letting other angry bitter lonely people tell you how to define your self worth and train you to repel healthy relationships with women (and others!). Though you are not owed a women (or in my case intersex) person's energy, I have compassion for you and am extending the benefit of the doubt. The secret though is that you don't need an insider's help- women have been screaming to the winds for ages about what is wrong and what's not working. You just have to enter female or feminists spaces online and listen with the intention of understanding and learning instead of being defensive and fighting with people.

 

[makebelieve]

same. its truly a miserable life.

 

[Aloneandinpain]

Exactly this. It's not healthy to pin your hopes on finding love, as it will lead to over-attachment and clinginess in general. You're more than likely going to go out with several women before finding the right one. But chasing it is a waste of time. Love finds its way to you on its own time.

Please spend your time doing what you love. She'll find her way to you along the way.

No she won't. And how the hell are we going to go out with several women if we can't even go out with one? That's absurd.

 

[TheKurdishLoner]

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idk, if you build your whole life around a future woman you're never going to be happy, especially when you do find someone to be that woman. Make your own happiness, find fulfillment in your own life. A partner will naturally appear in the process.

Lol no one suddenly just appears it only happens to women and extremely attractive men