i want to be confident, but i have a fear of disappointing myself if I do that

[Lol]

What if being confident just makes me more arrogant and sloppy in the things i do, is it even worth it at all?

 

[Walilamdzi]

I think there's a big difference between having a quiet confidence in what you do and being arrogant or obnoxious in any way. Also a lot of people act in a fake confident way to mask insecurities. What exactly do you mean by being confident?

 

[Lol]

I think there's a big difference between having a quiet confidence in what you do and being arrogant or obnoxious in any way. Also a lot of people act in a fake confident way to mask insecurities. What exactly do you mean by being confident?

I think just confident in myself as a person. I'm usually very insecure and I want to change that.

 

[WinterIsComing]

I think just confident in myself as a person. I'm usually very insecure and I want to change that.

I think you get it with time (is an habit) but faking it helps.
I think you need to take it as something that you deserve like how long have you been with this problem so why don't try something different?.
If you fear of acting cocky which is natural i think being gratefull or helping others is good to keep your head in the ground.

 

[Lol]

I think you get it with time (is an habit) but faking it helps.
I think you need to take it as something that you deserve like how long have you been with this problem so why don't try something different?.
If you fear of acting cocky which is natural i think being gratefull or helping others is good to keep your head in the ground.

I'll keep this in mind, thank you.

 

[Walilamdzi]

I would also say that I don't personally recommend faking it by being intoxicated in a way that lowers your inhibitions, it's better to work on it without that.

 

[WinterIsComing]

I'll keep this in mind, thank you.

Not easy i tell you is a thing to have discipline to do it all days.