I really want to hug a woman

[CoolGuy9]

I just wanna lie in my bed with a woman and hug her. I want to put my head on her chest and feel her breathing and her heart beating. I wanna tell what a lovely person she is. Not sure if I will ever get to feel this, but maybe I will.

 

[TheLastStraw]

Same 28 and never been in a relationship or had sex but the sex isn't important

I just want a best friend and to feel love/loved

I have everything I want, but with a girl I have nothing, I can't enjoy my possesions or free time without one, I just stare at my phone all day in my free time

I'm not very optimistic things will change at my age, it's all due to my own anxiety mainly

 

[anuglymale]

True

At least soon I will die and end this nonsense

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

I just want to share an experience. Yesterday I was doing some reading online about new movies slated for 2019. I found an article in Salon about how Hollywood is remaking movies with traditional male roles (like Ghostbusters...) with all-female casts because its research shows all-female cast movies sell better than all-male cast or mixed-gender cast movies. Almost all the commenters were women and the tone of the conversation was very anti-men. But one comment really got to me. It was a gif of someone beaten bloody crying as he was eating something disgusting--like a war prisoner might do. And the caption read, "Ahhhhhhhh, male tears!!" and sported a big, yellow happy face sticker. This comment earned lots and lots and lots of praise from the other women in the comment section of the article that was praising getting rid of men in films.

Do with that what you will.

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

Man, I feel you there. Sex sounds and looks far more boring than cuddles.

 

[Psilo]

I feel your pain, I might be the worlds most socially reclused person, but I know that every man needs a women by his sides. It's not even about sex as you said, it's about not being alone.
This reminds me everytime how miserable I am.

 

[Quinlor]

I want to get laid too but women don't like me. I know one that prefers to kill her self instead of have sex with me.

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

Man, I feel you there. Sex sounds and looks far more boring than cuddles.

Um, what sex have you been listening to, you minx you? (JK)

I feel your pain, I might be the worlds most socially reclused person, but I know that every man needs a women by his sides. It's not even about sex as you said, it's about not being alone.
This reminds me everytime how miserable I am.

Have you been following the evolution of AI and companionship robotics? It's believed that in our natural lifetimes a robust robotics industry will develop specifically to address the need medicine now empirically recognizes humans have for physical and emotional intimacy. People are not sick or perverted for craving intimacy with other human beings. We now know these intimacy needs' satisfactions are molecularly linked to health and even mortality. I wish I could get the word out to people who feel alienated b/c their natural need for companionship isn't satisfied that there's nothing wrong with them just because of this and that there are possible solutions on the horizon.

Peace, brother.

 

[CoolGuy9]

It feels a bit odd how me wanting to have sex with women is not that big compared to the other things I want to do with women. Or how me wanting to have sex with women isn't all about that pleasure.

 

[Walilamdzi]

I miss cuddles.

 

[seekingoblivion]

I want it all! Sex, cuddles, spending time together and even arguments man. I want the whole damn package. But right now the sex part is of paramount importance given the deep blue shade that has befallen my balls. They're seriously backed up man.

 

[snowman626]

yeah I want this too, im thinking of hiring an escort to just cuddle

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

yeah I want this too, im thinking of hiring an escort to just cuddle

I shouldn't butt in... But I've read several social media posts (Reddit...) about escorts who demand their clients be attractive. Some social psychologists who studied escorts in NV concluded that the same factors that make dating harder today (the perception of exceptional as average thanks to media flooding people with whitewashed human images...) have finally changed the escorting business causing a negative pressure on clients who most need companionship therapy. Blows my mind...

 

[seekingoblivion]

I shouldn't butt in... But I've read several social media posts (Reddit...) about escorts who demand their clients be attractive. Some social psychologists who studied escorts in NV concluded that the same factors that make dating harder today (the perception of exceptional as average thanks to media flooding people with whitewashed human images...) have finally changed the escorting business causing a negative pressure on clients who most need companionship therapy. Blows my mind...

We're fucked in every way except the way that matters!!

 

[CoolGuy9]

I shouldn't butt in... But I've read several social media posts (Reddit...) about escorts who demand their clients be attractive. Some social psychologists who studied escorts in NV concluded that the same factors that make dating harder today (the perception of exceptional as average thanks to media flooding people with whitewashed human images...) have finally changed the escorting business causing a negative pressure on clients who most need companionship therapy. Blows my mind...

When you can't get a gf, because you are ugly so you go to an escort, but you can't get and escort, because you are ugly. That's funny and sad.

 

[Jean Améry]

I just wanna lie in my bed with a woman and hug her. I want to put my head on her chest and feel her breathing and her heart beating. I wanna tell what a lovely person she is. Not sure if I will ever get to feel this, but maybe I will.

Intimacy is a fundamental need yes as indicated by others here. I wouldn't put your head on her chest though. I did that once with my ex-gf and she laughed and called me 'a big baby'. Of course it was meant to be funny. I found women generally like it when they can put their head on your chest or shoulder. Makes them feel cared for I guess.

If I managed to get a few girls almost anyone can. Just try not to be too impressed by them and treat them like normal human-beings and you should be fine. A bit of light teasing generally doesn't hurt.

Pro tip: try to avoid using the term 'breast friends', lol.

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

When you can't get a gf, because you are ugly so you go to an escort, but you can't get and escort, because you are ugly. That's funny and sad.

Imagine if doctors, nurses, physical therapists, dentists... were free to reject patients because they didn't like them physically (color of teeth, too tall/too short...). Or if doctors ONLY took easy medical cases. Obviously society won't allow that. But many people who advocate for legalized prostitution want people (both genders) to be free to reject others for any reason. I don't understand that at all. If you're a professional, you ought to accept business from anyone who's respectful, has the money for what you're selling, and isn't breaking any laws. Why would discrimination in this industry be acceptable? The people being discriminated against are the people who most need the services they're willing to pay for.

Humans.

 

[Jean Améry]

Imagine if doctors, nurses, physical therapists, dentists... were free to reject patients because they didn't like them physically (color of teeth, too tall/too short...). Or if doctors ONLY took easy medical cases. Obviously society won't allow that. But many people who advocate for legalized prostitution want people (both genders) to be free to reject others for any reason. I don't understand that at all. If you're a professional, you ought to accept business from anyone who's respectful, has the money for what you're selling, and isn't breaking any laws. Why would discrimination in this industry be acceptable? The people being discriminated against are the people who most need the services they're willing to pay for.

Humans.

Doctors are free to reject people they don't want to treat, unless that person is in immidiate danger. To equate a prostitute's right to sleep with whomever she chooses with discrimination is pretty far out there. Nobody should be forced to have sex against their will, under any circumstances.

What you're advocating here is slavery. How do you see this working in practice? 'No I don't want to sleep with this man'. 'Yes you will or there will be hell to pay'?

That being said a lot of prostitutes probably will accept men who are below society's standards, arbitrary as they may be. Beggars can't be choosers after all. Men who are handsome probably don't need prostitution.