i have a deadline of 8 days

[francisco]

Then i will enter to university and probably i'll not be able to do it.I don't have much knowledge about the best methods, however I would like one with little pain and reliable.
Can i do it by being a beginner?. I listen carefully

 

[faust]

Hello, what is your story and why is it necessary to hurry up? I think 8 days is not enough for most of the methods because you won't have enough practice and enough research. And some stuff won't simply come in such a short time span. Night night and partial fit better in this case, but are you sure you need to rush?

 

[francisco]

Hello, what is your story and why is it necessary to hurry up? I think 8 days is not enough for most of the methods because you won't have enough practice and enough research. And some stuff won't simply come in such a short time span. Night night and partial fit better in this case, but are you sure you need to rush?

I am having serious depressive problems. I have sleep problems, I have no friends, I live in complete isolation. My family hate me and I am a burden to my mother. I feel very angry and I am starting to cut myself to reduce it. With all these problems I don't feel able to study (in 8 more days) and the idea of the cbt is the only thing that I want.

 

[s1mplem3]

Are there professionals? We're all beginners, we can't die twice.

 

[faust]

I am having serious depressive problems. I have sleep problems, I have no friends, I live in complete isolation. My family hate me and I am a burden to my mother. I feel very angry and I am starting to cut myself to reduce it. With all these problems I don't feel able to study (in 8 more days) and the idea of the cbt is the only thing that I want.

I know what you mean and I am so sorry this is happening to you...
When you are so depressed to study it is very hard... And isolation of course affects you much in this case. Is this your own problem or may be we deal with too much "care" from your parents? I don't know about your country, but technically if you are unable to study, you can withdraw from the year having a letter from your doctor. Have you considered studying in another country/city? That may bring a bit of new life experience. Plus I guess there might be some societies which you may be interested in. Plus have you ever attended a psychiatrist?

 

[Biggie]

Please do not rush into anything without proper research and thought first. Killing yourself is by no means easy at all, many factors within you will try to prevent it at all costs and you do not want to end up paralysed or harming other innocent bystanders in the process.

I hate to break it to you, but there are no methods of suicide that will be highly reliable and cause little pain simultaneously.

I'd suggest taking your time reading through the many posts on this forum to consider your options first before taking any action.

 

[francisco]

I know what you mean and I am so sorry this is happening to you...
When you are so depressed to study it is very hard... And isolation of course affects you much in this case. Is this your own problem or may be we deal with too much "care" from your parents? I don't know about your country, but technically if you are unable to study, you can withdraw from the year having a letter from your doctor. Have you considered studying in another country/city? That may bring a bit of new life experience. Plus I guess there might be some societies which you may be interested in. Plus have you ever attended a psychiatrist?
[/ CITAR]
the problem is that I'm already a certain age and this is my second university career since I could not finish the first one because of similar problems. I feel tremendous pressure from my parents to at least be able to study. I would like to leave my country (Chile) but I have serious problems of socialization (I would not be able to adapt) and money. I would like to suspend my studies and have psychiatric help. But I feel it would be a partial "cure" unlike cbt. I hope to reflect more to arrive at a good decision, thanks for your help.

Please do not rush into anything without proper research and thought first. Killing yourself is by no means easy at all, many factors within you will try to prevent it at all costs and you do not want to end up paralysed or harming other innocent bystanders in the process.

I hate to break it to you, but there are no methods of suicide that will be highly reliable and cause little pain simultaneously.

I'd suggest taking your time reading through the many posts on this forum to consider your options first before taking any action.

Thank you for your advice and encourage me not to hurry

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

I gently share, just in case you missed this on the site Rules and FAQ:

Do not:

Encourage any acts, including suicide, or ask others for encouragement.

• Do not encourage, manipulate, coerce or help users carry out acts of any nature whatsoever, including suicide; only provide information and emotional support to those who ask for it. Do not try to get the community to tell you what to do, only you can choose your path and actions. Only request emotional support or factual information. (Underlined for emphasis.)

As you can see, we cannot guide you to methods, however there is a list of methods on the Resources Compilation sticky thread.

I say with much compassion, empathy, and understanding that rushing leads to failed attempts, physical injury, and hospitalization. It takes time to research, plan, and prepare in order to ensure you're ready, from a practical standpoint as well as emotionally and even spiritually.

It is clear that you are experiencing fear and anxiety. Perhaps we can listen and help you deal with what is causing these feelings, and how to prepare for what's coming up in eight days. Please feel free to share here. There are many good listeners in this community.

If you are certain that ctb is the right choice, we are here to support you as you go through the difficult process of all that acting on that choice entails. And we are here to support you if you change your mind.