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Help I have a date tomorrow and I don’t feel so good

HowSoonIsNow

HowSoonIsNow

" Oh, She was a victim of sweet suicide"
Feb 2, 2020
162
I've meet this person one year ago and they likes me a lot and we decided to schedule a date for tomorrow, I'm very insecure and I'm already crying bc I've never been in a date before and when I almost had the chance, while I was getting ready the girl canceled it cuz her friend showed up...I'm afraid that they won't show up, or forgot about us..
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
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Send her a funny meme some time ahead of the date to subtly remind her of you. I've never had a date planned but I have some ways of dealing with anticipatory anxiety of other kinds. Meditation, stoicism, deterministic thinking, hard exercise, writing down every thought in combination with critical thinking, flow charts, venting to someone.
 
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HowSoonIsNow

HowSoonIsNow

" Oh, She was a victim of sweet suicide"
Feb 2, 2020
162
GenesAndEnvironment said:
Send her a funny meme some time ahead of the date to subtly remind her of you. I've never had a date planned but I have some ways of dealing with anticipatory anxiety of other kinds. Meditation, stoicism, deterministic thinking, hard exercise, writing down every thought in combination with critical thinking, flow charts, venting to someone.
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I'm very nervous cuz they're a late replier :(
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
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HowSoonIsNow said:
I'm very nervous cuz they're a late replier :(
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Separate your nervousness from the girl and the situation at hand. First priority is to handle the nervousness.
 
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Nexey

Nexey

Student
Feb 18, 2021
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Edit: Read it wrong the first time. I'm also a late replier. I'm not sure why that makes you nervous but I can assure you it doesn't necessarily mean she isn't interested. Either she's busy or is trying to pace things in a way she thinks is healthy.
 
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HowSoonIsNow

HowSoonIsNow

" Oh, She was a victim of sweet suicide"
Feb 2, 2020
162
Nexey said:
Edit: Read it wrong the first time. I'm also a late replier. I'm not sure why that makes you nervous but I can assure you it doesn't necessarily mean she isn't interested. Either she's busy or is trying to pace things in a way she thinks is healthy.
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I am a bpd :/
 
BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Man-child, loser, autistic, etc.
Jan 26, 2021
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HowSoonIsNow said:
I'm very afraid thatb they might also don't show up :(
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Then you're back at square one, not square zero or -1. Square one is a safe place.
 
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BeansOfRequirement

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Jan 26, 2021
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Update!
 
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Symbiote

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Oct 12, 2020
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I hope he didn't have to pay for both his date and her girl friend that she brought too. That be fucked up and he just got used as a meal ticket.
 
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Makko

Makko

Iä!
Jan 17, 2021
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Symbiote said:
I hope he didn't have to pay for both his date and her girl friend that she brought too. That be fucked up and he just got used as a meal ticket.
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I knew a girl who had a male contact on her phone named "free food". Never met him or got to learn his actual name, but I've heard her talk to him a few times and the dynamic between them was quite plainly just "free food". Why not? There's no reason to reject charity.
 
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Mentalmick

Mentalmick

IMHOTEP!!!
Nov 30, 2020
2,049
Maybe she kidnapped him and threw him in the basement. She's probably beating him as we speak.
 
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Symbiote

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Or death by snu snu
 
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