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Rye

Rye

Breathe, when it’s all you can do.
Jun 30, 2023
15
I feel like people only give a fuck about me because I'm conventionally attractive.
I hate it so fucking much.
I want to ruin my face and body. I want to look how I feel.
 
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DivineSpark

DivineSpark

Elementalist
Feb 9, 2025
831
Heya, at least you are attractive, lots of people are born not attractive.
 
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Rye

Rye

Breathe, when it’s all you can do.
Jun 30, 2023
15
Heya, at least you are attractive, lots of people are born not attractive.
That's literally not the point. At least if you're unattractive you know when people like you for you. Being like this just makes everyone around me give a fuck because they think I'm hot.
when I die I don't want people around me to say it was a waste because I was attractive.
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
5,158
Weird flex, but okay...
 
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roommate

roommate

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Feb 14, 2025
445
That's literally not the point. At least if you're unattractive you know when people like you for you. Being like this just makes everyone around me give a fuck because they think I'm hot.
when I die I don't want people around me to say it was a waste because I was attractive.
It's not a battle, but if you're ugly you get literally ignored, just so you know
 
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imOK

Experienced
Apr 10, 2025
267
I used to be really fat for a few years because medication that basically disabled any sense of fullness and people objectively treated me worse. Like, a lot worse. Rude from the get go without good reason. Was quite the eye-opener. People just suck tbh.
 
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SVEN

SVEN

I Wish I'd Been a Jester Too.
Apr 3, 2023
2,802
I feel like people only give a fuck about me because I'm conventionally attractive.
I hate it so fucking much.
I want to ruin my face and body. I want to look how I feel.
As someone who's never been that attractive all that may happen is that you'll find that if you have a decent personality some folk may still like you, just not so many.
Or, you might find that people just don't like you.
Either way you'll lose the minor pleasantries which attractive looking people benefit from.
 
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divinemistress87

divinemistress87

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
4,919
As a woman when I was younger (starting to loose my looks) men only wanted me cause I was sexually attractive they never actually liked me . In some ways its nice getting older and loosing that so not so sexualized
 
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getoutgirl

getoutgirl

got out the site <3
Mar 17, 2025
558
People who are not conventionally attractive have their hardships and are treated worse by a lot of society, and people who are conventionally attractive also receive their own kind of shitty treatment. No need to make it a pain competition, or not much to gain from that rather.
No one likes to be objectified, it can overshadow all the other aspects that make you you in the eyes of others, even your own if you don't watch it. So I do take you seriously.

However I must also add this

I just have to, it's beyond my control. If it makes you laugh I'm glad if it does not I'm sorry but as I said I just can't I have to
 
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