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TheSoulless

TheSoulless

I'd like to fly but my wings have been so denied
Jan 7, 2020
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I feel confident in my head, but whenever I do something that might be a bother to other people, I feel guilty about it. When I called the doctor to make an appointment today, I felt guilty because I called twice in a row, not considering that they might have a patient visiting then. I feel like a burden to my parents, too.
 
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Nolye

Nolye

The hardest battles are fought in the mind.
May 3, 2020
74
All the time. It's even harder if you have anxiety, I don't even feel confident in my head. Like you, I feel guilty and a burden, always, no matter what. It's so tiresome. I should ask someone how to make my parents saints, after 30 years of dealing with me.
 
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GoBack

GoBack

Paragon
Apr 25, 2020
997
Same here, it's mainly an accumulation of many guilts that have me here. It affected my decisions so much I got myself into a hole too deep. If you can talk to someone about it I would, no one should have to live like that.

Guilt is there for a reason, to tell us if we've done something actually wrong but it's not meant to be a way of life over every little thing.
 
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randomz

randomz

Specialist
Nov 4, 2019
395
All the time. It's even harder if you have anxiety, I don't even feel confident in my head. Like you, I feel guilty and a burden, always, no matter what. It's so tiresome. I should ask someone how to make my parents saints, after 30 years of dealing with me.

Absollutely the same.
 
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Bct

Bct

Disqualified from Being Human
Apr 20, 2020
419
Same here, easily feeling guilt even for mistakes I didn't do just because it made other people inconvenient.
 
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Pryras

Pryras

Last hope
Feb 11, 2020
621
I feel you and you're not alone at all on that. Everything can feel like a burden. What's shocking is how much anger I held towards someone and once I saw how they were hurting it hurt my heart.
 
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nothere123

Member
Apr 22, 2023
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I feel confident in my head, but whenever I do something that might be a bother to other people, I feel guilty about it. When I called the doctor to make an appointment today, I felt guilty because I called twice in a row, not considering that they might have a patient visiting then. I feel like a burden to my parents, too.
Sometimes, because of my BPD, just occupying space or existing makes me feel guilty. I am so burdensome to people