I dont know why but embracing the vampire aesthetic seems to help quite a bit, still unsure where to begin always

[FriendDeath]

Would be best to know to be honest

 

[Life_and_Death]

if im understanding correctly, im dealing with the same issue just a more general Alt style. no idea where to start.

playing around i guess? walk into a store and see what you resonate with

 

[FriendDeath]

if im understanding correctly, im dealing with the same issue just a more general Alt style. no idea where to start.

playing around i guess? walk into a store and see what you resonate with

Right now i dont know im doing this to cope with my abusive family

 

[Dot]

cld try googlng 'vampre aesthtc clthes' thre wll b optns of wht clthes r on markt

Depndng on hw mch ££ u hve u cn eithr purchse frm dedc8td onlne markts or fnd nmes of clothng itms on markts & serch fr thm on Ebay & d-pop & 2nd-hnd clothng stes

 

[FriendDeath]

cld try googlng 'vampre aesthtc clthes' thre wll b optns of wht clthes r on markt

Depndng on hw mch ££ u hve u cn eithr purchse frm dedc8td onlne markts or fnd nmes of clothng itms on markts & serch fr thm on Ebay & d-pop & 2nd-hnd clothng stes

I do have a few to begin with but thanks

 

[Life_and_Death]

Right now i dont know im doing this to cope with my abusive family

tbf, its just a style.

you can always let your hair grow back out, redye it (although growing it out might be better, i wouldnt advise you to over dye/kill your hair )
you can always donate the clothes away that you feel dont suit you anymore
you can always wash the makeup off

ive personally been sitting with my decision for months (possibly a year or 2, i havent been keeping track)
its ok to sit with it and think about it for a bit
but also in this case, i dont think it can do a horrible amount of damage so trying it out isnt a horrible idea either

whatever feels best for you.
whatever makes you happy
even if it takes you a couple of tries to find it

 

[FriendDeath]

tbf, its just a style.

you can always let your hair grow back out, redye it (although growing it out might be better, i wouldnt advise you to over dye/kill your hair )
you can always donate the clothes away that you feel dont suit you anymore
you can always wash the makeup off

ive personally been sitting with my decision for months (possibly a year or 2, i havent been keeping track)
its ok to sit with it and think about it for a bit
but also in this case, i dont think it can do a horrible amount of damage so trying it out isnt a horrible idea either

whatever feels best for you.
whatever makes you happy
even if it takes you a couple of tries to find it

It helps me cope tbh so what now

 

[Life_and_Death]

so what now

playing around i guess? walk into a store and see what you resonate with

 

[FriendDeath]

Yea i could try, i did say i already do have a bit of the vampire stuff tho

 

[HeadTikker]

Try to get really quiet footwear. Nobody likes clip clop horse vampires. Wear stuff that looks like it would be expensive in like the 1400s. Batman merch might work for some items.

 

[FriendDeath]

Try to get really quiet footwear. Nobody likes clip clop horse vampires. Wear stuff that looks like it would be expensive in like the 1400s.

i do have some of the stuff