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How would you like to be remembered?
Thread starterBornofDust
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How would you liked to be remembered. Or do you not care. How you want people to view your life, your dreams, your goals. Do you want people do know your story or do you want to just dissapear into the ashes of history. Do you want there to be a legacy of some sorts. Do you want to be remembered well. What do you plan on leaving behind.
I don't really care. 99.9% of all humans to have ever existed are long forgotten and their legacies are nothing more than the continuation of the species.
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ReallyTired, ryo the frog, Everlong and 6 others
Well, my loved ones are the only ones who'll remember me for anything. I just hope they won't hate me for leaving them... I hope they'll know I tried my best.
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ryo the frog, SuicideAwaits and lofticries
I'd like to be remembered for who I was before depression, anxiety and anhedonia took hold of me. If I die by suicide, then I'm concerned that the way I die will overshadow my life. That's why I don't want an obituary.
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Everlong, SuicideAwaits and Thegoldenapples
If I had the power to remove every trace of my existence on this earth after I die I would. Srsly there is not much to remember might as well leave with a clean slate.
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swanlake, Pisceslilith, Skathon and 2 others
They'll all immediatly forget i existed which is fine by me. Family already pretty much forget I exist already, won't make much of a difference to anyone.
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BeansOfRequirement, killedbypsychiatry, lofticries and 1 other person
I would like to be remembered, but honestly no one would remember me as what I truly am, so it wouldn't really matter anyways. I would hope my parents would not remember me to lessen their pain, but they probably would never forget and it might haunt them forever.
I personally don't care how people remember me. They could call me worse than hitler or praise me as a saint it makes no difference. But it would be nice if even 1 person, or perhaps only that single person, knew the inner workings of my mind. The stories and worlds I've made up and envisioned. But that'll never happen even while I'm alive so there's nothing to remember me by.
I do not want to be remembered at all. The majority of people that I am around in the real world treat me like I do not exist while I am alive right now, so I do not want those same individuals, or anyone else for that matter, dancing on my grave after I am deceased; not only would this be virtue signalling but also hypocritical of them. Plus I do not want anyone in my life anymore; I have given up on forming relationships with others (partly) because of what was just said. Measures will be taken to ensure that my death is discreet as possible.
Having said all of that it is unlikely that many will be upset anyway - I am not special or important; I am not trying to flatter myself.
I don't want people around me to know why I suicided because they don't deserve to know and plus I don't want them to waste their lives on me, so it's better for them to forget about me rather than remember me. This is the reason I'm not writing anything before I ctb.
I don't want people to know. I would quit my job, give notice to landlord, get rid of all my stuff. Tell them all I'm moving somewhere. I will leave a will of sorts, just to ask that my death not be reported in the news. I want to go very quietly. My brothers will have to be notified, and my mother if she is still alive when I CTB. I would hate to do that to my mother though. I don't want a funeral, it would be so pathetic as there would be nobody to attend. Ugh.
I wouldn't want to be remembered at all. I just want to be forgotten about, like I never existed at all. In an ideal world I would choose to completely disappear.
i don't really care to be remembered at all…i imagine my passing will probably only lead to a lot of pain and confusion for others. i wish i could disappear without a trace and be forgotten instantly. i used to be a good friend to many people, but i've cut contact with pretty much all of my friends and loved ones except for my parents and my one best friend. i suppose i would hope they'll remember me as funny, honest and aware that i love them soooo very dearly…:-(
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